social anxiety & pot
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I have some shitty anxiety.. Every time I go up to someone I just think I'm looking gay saying nothing but yet I'll look gay if I say something because I'll say something stupid so I end up saying nothing and people are like.. Who the hell was that kid. But when I'm high I'm just like fuck it I don't care if these people don't like me. I don't even know them so how's it going to hurt? It's not just when I'm high too.. I just sort of stopped caring about a lot of stuff when I started smoking and slowly I'm getting rid of the anxiety.. Honestly, it's just all about not giving a shit. Bottle your emotions dude.
MyNameIsHead
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social anxiety is something people are usually born with it
in my opinion nothing starts social anxiety but its present in someones life since birth considering everyone i know who has social anxiety their entire life
in my opinion nothing starts social anxiety but its present in someones life since birth considering everyone i know who has social anxiety their entire life
MyNameIsHead
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word up homie
except that part at the end about bottling emotions.. lol not cool
but yeah i used to have that "situation" shit happen to me where i think ill end up looking like a jackass but then i started getting high then going to parties
and there you have to be sociable
and if you arent sociable then its usually hard for you to stand up for yourself so its also about not letting dicks walk all over you
you just gotta stop giving a shit about what people think of you
#1accordfamily
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social anxiety is actually why me and my best friend arnt friends anymore. he still says cooped up in his house allday. he dosent have any friends. no job. just plays games all day. but he stoped talking to me when his grandma found out i smoked.
MyNameIsHead
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damn son that sucks
yeah i hate when i know a great person but coupled with social anxiety and a general dislike for crowds they hate being in social situations
it pains me really that they cant fin more happiness
yeah i hate when i know a great person but coupled with social anxiety and a general dislike for crowds they hate being in social situations
it pains me really that they cant fin more happiness
iBLaZe4tozErO
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I kinda get the same way usally after long dry spells) go have sex. It always puts that spark back. I hate being in crowds but I could usally do ok in smaller groups. But sex is the answer. Even if its with a hooker( never done this) but when u go a year it crosses the mind. I find after I bone a chick I'm a lot more confident and aproach alot more girls. And usally make up for the dry spell in a couple of weeks. Now go have sex( masterbating to pics of hot chicks don't count)
iblazethatkush
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Drugs and alcohol work for me. I know that's only a temporary fix and doesn't fix the root of the problem. But, it's working for me now, so fuck it.
Ser0 Products
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not good for youuuu....
iblazethatkush
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I know but I'm just being real. It works.
Yer.. When I said bottle em up I meant bottle em up and let them spill when you're high (don't do that every time when you're high). Haven't you guys seen Half fuckin Baked? Sir Smokes a Lot 
. That's exactly what he did and look at where he was 
. But I think most potheads are really potheads for the social side of it. The high is just a plus.
. That's exactly what he did and look at where he was . But I think most potheads are really potheads for the social side of it. The high is just a plus.
curleefrie
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College is so different from high school it is not even fuckin funny. first off you don't have to socialize with anybody you dont want to. second they are usually a little more mature and dont judge as quick. what helped me a lot was painting. it is a good way to get your feeling out without being too vulnerable in such an obvious way, so you dont bottle things up but have to put yourself out there completely and its fun.
pandabear
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man dude this is a problem that u need to take medication for, i had the problem all my life i got to the point were I couldnt even hang out socially unless i was drinking. i didnt lose my virginity till after all my freinds did cuz i always made excuses to myself like oo she too ugly or whatever just cuz the anxiety, my freinds would even like have a gurl for me who was down to fuck or somthing and id run away and hex her
but i just lived with it not really knowing that my brain was messed up and low on a brain chemical i thought i was just being a pussy, it got to the point where i would be drinkin straight liquir in the car on the way to a date cuz i was so nerveous,
anyway whenever i was drunk it all went away and i could be my charming self and get laid, but finally after i got married and kinda being a shut in cuz weed would make me not wanna go anywhere, i finally had to bite the bullet and go see a doctor cuz i had an important job and was freaking out during big meetings and shit, one time i just walked out in the middle of an important business meeting and never came back.
so i go to this doc and feel like now i gotta tell this guy im a little bitch and need help for my anxiety and he put me on Lexapro first 10 mg then uped it to 20mg takes 3 weeks to kick in fully and releases seratonin in your brain that you are not producing enough of. anyway man that shit will change your life, its some sick shit. and once the pill fixs you u instantly feel great talkative and shit, works great for me. go to a doc an he will ask u a bunch of questions and he can tell by that if u need pills on not. but tell him to hook you up with some lexapro
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but i just lived with it not really knowing that my brain was messed up and low on a brain chemical i thought i was just being a pussy, it got to the point where i would be drinkin straight liquir in the car on the way to a date cuz i was so nerveous,anyway whenever i was drunk it all went away and i could be my charming self and get laid, but finally after i got married and kinda being a shut in cuz weed would make me not wanna go anywhere, i finally had to bite the bullet and go see a doctor cuz i had an important job and was freaking out during big meetings and shit, one time i just walked out in the middle of an important business meeting and never came back.
so i go to this doc and feel like now i gotta tell this guy im a little bitch and need help for my anxiety and he put me on Lexapro first 10 mg then uped it to 20mg takes 3 weeks to kick in fully and releases seratonin in your brain that you are not producing enough of. anyway man that shit will change your life, its some sick shit. and once the pill fixs you u instantly feel great talkative and shit, works great for me. go to a doc an he will ask u a bunch of questions and he can tell by that if u need pills on not. but tell him to hook you up with some lexapro
tellem Dr. Panda sent ya
And this doesn't fuck with you when you're taking any drugs right?... Like how MOIA's or w/e they're called do with DXM? Does it make weed trips more intensive?man dude this is a problem that u need to take medication for, i had the problem all my life i got to the point were I couldnt even hang out socially unless i was drinking. i didnt lose my virginity till after all my freinds did cuz i always made excuses to myself like oo she too ugly or whatever just cuz the anxiety, my freinds would even like have a gurl for me who was down to fuck or somthing and id run away and hex her
anyway whenever i was drunk it all went away and i could be my charming self and get laid, but finally after i got married and kinda being a shut in cuz weed would make me not wanna go anywhere, i finally had to bite the bullet and go see a doctor cuz i had an important job and was freaking out during big meetings and shit, one time i just walked out in the middle of an important business meeting and never came back.
so i go to this doc and feel like now i gotta tell this guy im a little bitch and need help for my anxiety and he put me on Lexapro first 10 mg then uped it to 20mg takes 3 weeks to kick in fully and releases seratonin in your brain that you are not producing enough of. anyway man that shit will change your life, its some sick shit. and once the pill fixs you u instantly feel great talkative and shit, works great for me. go to a doc an he will ask u a bunch of questions and he can tell by that if u need pills on not. but tell him to hook you up with some lexapro
tellem Dr. Panda sent ya
I think I might try this out
. I'm not really afraid to say things now.. I just simply have nothing to say lol. I have no idea how I'm able to get by socially :S and I know I can do better.
curleefrie
Active Member
i was on lexapro for a while it didn't make me more talkative i jaust wasn't depressed it made me feel weird too. i didn't like it.
pandabear
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And this doesn't fuck with you when you're taking any drugs right?... Like how MOIA's or w/e they're called do with DXM? Does it make weed trips more intensive?
I think I might try this out
i dont know i didnt notice anything like highs more intense or when drinking, i told the doc i drank a lot and he told me to just take the pill in the morning, shit i was downin the pill somtimes with alcohol all it does is increase levels of serotonin in your brain to the proper levels
yea like i dont mean it makes me more talkative but made me more inclined to to say things that pop in my head that i would have normaly kept to myself in the past because of anxiety
it also made me drink more tho is the bad thing cuz i drank a lot already and this shit makes me more outgoing, like if im not playing video games or busy with somthin ill feel like chillin with a some freinds and drankin and then mix that with a little bit of white widow and ooooooooooowwwwwwwwwweeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
Ser0 Products
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Fuck anti- Depressents... if i were to take anything for ANYTHING it would be Xanax... but even at that fuck getting hooked on pills or for that matter any drug... addiction just worsens everything... there isnt much you can do except vent through habits, good habits though, exercise, drawing, painting, making music, sex, smoking.... well, those are all what i do 
i have social anxiety disorder and smoke 1-3 times a day. I find that when I'm a little high but not stoned out of my mind I'm more talkative and care less about what people think of me. But when I'm really high I get more withdrawn and paranoid and rather just be alone somewhere.