Ok, true story. I once dated a girl who was on the University of Michigan women’s crew team (rowing). She was 5’11” blond, blue eyed and exceptionally attractive…..but she had a strength that I have encountered in no other woman. I won’t say bulky but defiantly cut with some mass. One day we were wrestling in the park at a picnic with friends and she literally bench pressed me (6’1”, 215 athletic). I dumped her the next day. I was afraid of her breaking me in half. I have often wondered if that was the right decision, but at least it was the safe one.