Such thing as a soulmate?

Urca said:
no, there is no such thing as a soul mate.
maybe even love for that matter.
maybe its just no love or soul mate for me.
which is problably the case cause i know that no guy would love me, so how could i have a soulmate??
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Urca your an 18 year old child. How in the heck can you even answer a question like this when you've never had a relationship?
 
Urca said:
well ive never had anyone show me any different, so how am i supposed to believe that? seriously, guys dont even LOOK at me with anything more than just a glance. never even been with anyone.
so where's my love my soulmate? or even a little caring?
im fat, its not gonna be there for me.
if anything all im gonna get are guys who want to fool around but dont want me, they want something very temporary with anyone who has a gash between their legs.
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You can fix 'fat', but you can't fix stupid. First the soul mate premise has been blown up by some of the very authors who pushed the concept (Richard Bach for one) back in the mid 70s. Having been married twice + lived with 3 women, whether it's me, or them, the end result is (and this from my perspective), with few exceptions, we come together for a time to teach/learn from one another. The problem is when it no longer serves our greater good, we need to part, amicably. Humans have a real hard time with holding on to things that simply aren't there anymore, or ever were, as we tend to jump into relationships way too fast. Easy to say, hard to do.

I know men who prefer, and marry fat women, so that is just a fixable excuse.

Go within. Be honest with yourself. What are you doing/projecting that attracts the wrong men, or none at all? That'll be $300 for the therapy session
 
i found my soul mate 9 years ago, at the age of 48. i couldnt imagine my life without her. we have a 7 acre farm with lots of animals that we bought 2 yr. ago and this place wouldnt mean shit without her.i work and make the money, she cooks and makes sure the bills get paid...and we share the chores of owning a small goat farm. HAPPY HOLIDAYS, TO ALL. even you sacota, smile.
 
I do believe there are soul-mates. If anyone has ever read the symposium and remembers Aristophanes's speech on the origins of love, which perfectly explains why and how we have soul-mates. If not, here is a music video explaining it. It is from a movie call Hedwig and The Angry Inch.

[video=youtube;WzX7SP1NkAg]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WzX7SP1NkAg[/video]
 
I am so sorry to hear that. My heart goes out to you, especially, at this time of year when the world seems to made for 2. Whether you believe or not you will be in my prayers tonight.
Carne Seca said:
My soulmate has been dead for 20 years and I still ache in my heart when I think of him. :(
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LOL how can i not, destiny and faith seem to walk similar paths or lead to the same place, right to u ;)
True love can be a powerful drug, nothing compares :)
 
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