Your analogy leaves much to be desired. How does lunch meat equate to a civil rights violation? You invalidated your own (rather strange) analogy by invoking religion. Religious views and morals cannot and should not be legislated. This is a rule of law nation not a theocracy which is what our founding forefathers intended. There is a class of people that are not allowed the full rights of citizenship based solely on religious bias. DOMA is a violation of the constitution and should be struck down. Religion belongs at home. If you don't want gay marriage then don't marry someone who's gay. Go to church with other people that believe the way you do. But don't try to violate my rights simply because you feel it's wrong. That's a moral judgement. It has nothing to with reality, common sense, or the constitution. As I stated earlier, It's a semitic tribal taboo that has carried down through the generations. It's a vestigial useless custom that has no place in modern society. We are not nomads roaming the desert looking for the promised land. We are educated, technologically advanced, modern human beings. Believe what you want but don't force your beliefs onto me.