7x sez ..."How would one go about eliminating ego without destroying the human spirit in the process?i don't see how the two are connected Vi."
Ego and the human spirit are connected. They are both part of human nature. Its ego that causes one to strive for success. ... to be the best that one can be. Success can mean different things to different people. Mother Teresa was successful and Bill Gates is successful. You can bet that Mother Thresa and Bill Gates both had/have egos. It doesn't necessaraly have anything to do with monetary success or possessions. My point was ... if ego is destroyed/supressed, as Med and Dank would do through government force, the human spirit is destroyed in the process to a large degree as well.
Vi
ok, in the most literal sense, i agree with you; ego - the one described by Freud, is always part of the process of not only success, but failure and everything in between.
my point is that feeding the ego and/or cultivating it and ignoring the other components of our psyche causes us to revert, socially, back to a childlike mentality where it's all "me", "mine" or doesn't matter.
Bill Gates time and time again set aside his desire to be right, get credit and would listen to others, still does, why do you think he gave up the CEO, COO spots? ego would have him sitting at the head of the table.
his goal: "To enable people and businesses throughout the world to realize their full potential."
the MS focus has always been outside itself. 1980/90s MS motto: "Empowering people."
Enron motto: "Respect, Integrity, Communication and Excellence." all ego, looking inward all the time...hmmm.
the human spirit is what allows us to overcome ego. ego doesn't care if we are the best, it only cares that other people think we are the best!! ego just wants trincets and reminders of what we have where human spirit can thrive on only thoughts of what we have given. when you're dying do you ponder that hella expensive speaker, that denon or nakamichi receiver or is there something a bit less tangible that you would probably think about?
my original point was, is, that we have to start telling our corps to grow up. in the 60s society started to be suspicious of corps, in a huge leap of intolerance and disrespect for other perspectives a large segment of society labeled corp workers as "the man" and attributed all social ills to everything corp... that paved the way for the lowest demoninator to flourish. we should be able to regard everyone as not only capable of doing good in whatever vocation they choose, but we should expect it! we have to start to encourage people instead of always expecting the worst.
write letters, make calls, do your part before there isn't a part!