UUggghhh!! A Rant.

budlover13 said:

Just had to rant about my ex who took my son on a date with her Sancho. Not the guy she cheated on me with and moved in with, but the guy who she is cheating on HIM with.

She bought him a Ripstick for Christmas 2 years ago and now wants it back at her place. (i have primary custody.)

She is entitled (via court order) to one weekend a month and all 3 day holidays except President's Day and Labor Day. That agreement was made when she was living 300 miles away and she has since moved closer within 20 miles (as soon as i remarried and her boyfriend decided to move back up here where he was raised.) She now enjoys (via my son's request) every other weekend and the same holidays. NOW she wants EVERY weekend and ALL holidays.

She refuses to buy him clothes for his weekend (and half the summer) visits because she says he'll just outgrow them. She lies to him about a LOT and plays mental games with him (remember, he's just turning 13 in a couple months). She lays guilt trips on him and is pretty much a cunt imo. i DON'T use that term lightly.

She left a week before his 6th b-day and did so by dropping him off at school and telling him she wouldn't be home when he got out. The story could go on and on but i just needed to vent.

Thanks guys.

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imchucky666 said:

I was gonna say..........
Don't fill his head with shit like she does, but maybe just try and point out the fucked up things she does like trying to manipulate everything to her advantage.
He will see what's really going on, and you will come out sweet in the end.
My son had not been getting along well with his mother since a few years after we had split up, around age 10.
When my son graduated, I was down in Alabama for his grad ceremony, and spent the rest of that night and the following day moving his shit out of my ex's place.

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budlover13 said:

Definitely haven't talked shit on her regardless of my will to do so. Her actions speak louder than my words ever could.

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shrxhky420 said:

wow don't know how I didn't see this thread earlier... this sounds a lot like my story only it's my daughter and her mom is still in another state. my ex left when my daughter was 7 and she just turned 13 a few months ago. I know what you are going through.







It sounds like he sees what's up already. My kid was lost for a little while and I pointed some things out to help her see some of the problems it was causing. No lies just truths.
She spends every summer with her mom and when she comes back from there it's like a totally different kid. I got to reel her back in every time. All I know is she is always happy to be HOME!!!

any way good luck stay high

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