OK Jadi, here's the way I see it. You have self-esteem issues. (now i sound like Frasier). It doen't matter if you are ugly, that's not the point. There are people out there for you. Some ugly people go for good looking people (Frasier again!). Confidence comes from insde.
This isn't the best site to be asking these questions on because it's a male environment where we all tend to get a bit testoserone inflated.
I think what most people don't realise (male or female) is that in a man's eyes, looks count for 20% and in a woman's, 95%. Generally, I suspect it the woman who is far more worried about her looks and that affects behaviour and confidence etc which follow on to 'pulling power'.
