what i want in a bf

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xKuroiTaimax

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I kind of knew this would happen because I had exactly the same shit.

Ignore them, I know you're genuine. Look, I even got accused of being a federal agent out to screw people.

You're a nice, cute girl. Feel free to Skype me any time and I can say I've seen proof you're real and just looking for a relationship like any normal decent person.
 
timbo123

timbo123

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jadie said:
someone who will smoke with me, play video games with me, go on late night adventures with me, who loves sex just as much as i do---i'm not talking someone who likes to have quick sex and call it a wrap. i want a guy who will spend an hour on foreplay if i feel like it.

i want someone who i can laugh for hours with

someone who appreciates me for me


what sucks the most is i have a best guy friend who has all the qualities i'm looking for--except i don't know about the sex stuff because we've never had sex---but he's told me he finds me beautiful (i don't think he actually does though, i have really low self esteem), we can spend all of our free time together and never get sick of each other. we always have fun.
i told him i liked him and he said he doesn't ever see us dating..that we're too good of friends.

i feel like i'm never going to find someone i get along so well with. and we spend most of time together still.
and it sucks cause i feel like it's just the way i look
what do you look for in a s/o ?
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For what it's worth... you don't look like an undatable person. This 'friend' that you dig... I would suggest lifting up your shirt when you're hanging with him and asking his opinion on your boobs.
 
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jadie

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i can't skype... ha this is lame but i'm using a school laptop that i checked out. can't install any programs blahblahblah
 
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xKuroiTaimax

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That doesn't work. I tried that sort of stuff with my friend for 3 years. Plus she has already explained he loves her as a friend.

Sweetheart I feel for you. Hold on to the nice person you are. What went wrong with your ex, if you don't mind me asking?
 
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xKuroiTaimax

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D3monic said:
I'm not too far away. Just a hop skip and a jump down I80.
Not looking for a GF though but you can add me to the Friends list with the possibility of some pipe thrown your way when ever you would like.
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I say give her a chance and you might even fall in love ;3
 
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jadie

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Well I dated one guy for six years then another guy shortly after for a couple months.
My first ex and I just grew apart. We changed a lot from the time we began dating. I often felt like he was holding me back somehow. I broke it off with him. He was a nice guy but it just wasn't working out. We're still on good terms and I'll always have a special place in my heart for him, he was my first love.

The guy I dated after him was a complete dick. Going into it, he screwed me over initially so I don't know why I kept giving him chances. We hung out a lot and he had a long distance girlfriend. He would always cuddle with me, and I knew it was wrong but I didn't stop it. Eventually he told me he was leaving her for me. We had sex, they broke up. Then he told me that he didn't like as more than a friend. We stopped talking for 2 full months, and then he apologized and we started hanging out again. He asked me to be his gf. When we started dating, he treated me like shit. On and off he would ignore me or make me feel like crap for no reason. He would only have sex with me when he was in the mood, which was rare, and he never made sure that I got off. We broke up and got back together, then he told me that he decided he was going to move back to Florida. We promised that we would keep each other in our lives and I would visit him and vice versa. 3 weeks after moving down there, he had a new gf. They are now engaged. Shortly after they started dating he decided to send me a facebook message telling me exactly how much I never meant to him...
 
Fungus Gnat

Fungus Gnat

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jadie said:
Well I dated one guy for six years then another guy shortly after for a couple months.
My first ex and I just grew apart. We changed a lot from the time we began dating. I often felt like he was holding me back somehow. I broke it off with him. He was a nice guy but it just wasn't working out. We're still on good terms and I'll always have a special place in my heart for him, he was my first love.

The guy I dated after him was a complete dick. Going into it, he screwed me over initially so I don't know why I kept giving him chances. We hung out a lot and he had a long distance girlfriend. He would always cuddle with me, and I knew it was wrong but I didn't stop it. Eventually he told me he was leaving her for me. We had sex, they broke up. Then he told me that he didn't like as more than a friend. We stopped talking for 2 full months, and then he apologized and we started hanging out again. He asked me to be his gf. When we started dating, he treated me like shit. On and off he would ignore me or make me feel like crap for no reason. He would only have sex with me when he was in the mood, which was rare, and he never made sure that I got off. We broke up and got back together, then he told me that he decided he was going to move back to Florida. We promised that we would keep each other in our lives and I would visit him and vice versa. 3 weeks after moving down there, he had a new gf. They are now engaged. Shortly after they started dating he decided to send me a facebook message telling me exactly how much I never meant to him...
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If you're trying to sell yourself, you could hold off on telling everyone your emotional baggage...
 
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