Ugh, there arent enough words for me to explain my frustrations without typing a fucking novel. I feel like the world owes me at this point. I know that is a pathological way of thinking but its the truth. I feel like I am worth more and the world needs to give me an opportunity to reach my potential soon or I would rather not exist in it anymore.
I currently am forced to live with my cheapass brother and his faggot roommates and have been paying them 300$ to stay in the living room. They stay up all night every night and be noisy and give me no respect. My brother is such a cheapass faggot that his girlfriend became attracted to me because of my caring attitude. I can tell my brother probly thinks its my fault but really its his...
the way I feel is that nobody wants me to succeed in life because not only am I good at everything I do, I am not that materialistic. I have things that make me happy of course but if I have more than I need I am the kind of guy who will go out of his way to share. I have always wanted to be that guy who makes everything good.
I came to this realization about myself a while back;
You're not special and no one owes you anything. If you want recognition you need to spend years and years and years busting your balls for someone else until you've earned your recognition and the opportunity for yourself. It may sound harsh, but the sooner you're happy with what you have, and start taking things in stride, the sooner you'll be happy with yourself.
Talk is cheap. Actions speak louder than words. I'm sure you've heard all the cliches.
Work a shitty job for a few years and save every penny until you can buy a van, and ladders, and all the shit you need to paint, and open your own shop.... at least do something! Get
two jobs and move out off the couch! Earning your own keep, and not living off your brother will make you feel better about yourself too. "Making it" isn't easy and most people just want the rewards without the hard work.
Oh, and about the people you painted for; always negotiate before you get there and never change your prices. If it costs $1500 and you sell it for $1200, guess what? Next time they need your services, the starting price just dropped to $1200 and that's where they want to start negotiations next time. Just some sales advice from a former salesman.....
.....and never do your 'job' for free. If you're a painter, never paint for free, if you're a mechanic never fix friends cars for free, etc., etc. ESPECIALLY to friends and family; you'll never get out of doing free work.