here here for BongS.....well said and totally on board with those words...and Lacy too! believe in your core, who you are and what you can do. shit happenss to everyone, the real happy ones walk on (after learning something hopefully, but walking on). In short, go with whatever your gut is telling you, I know in my case I went with what I thought I was supposed to, only to realize its all about choices. each and every thing you do and say is your choice. so if you make a choice and it doesn't quite end up where vyou expected it to, the option is for you to make a new choice. so you feel maybe your not smart enough, or how can you know what you like, start trying shit all over the place, and don't get discouraged when somthning doesn't work out, its part of the process. enjoy each moment that you are in and then make a new choice to experience a new moment. wow...sorry....I'm stoned! hahahahahahaha!