i honestly think that is the real problem.. but do you seriously agree with me on this point?? i mean, i used to get beat, but heaven forbid you do that shit today..
i've even heard kids tell their parents that if you hit me i'm calling the cops on you.. swear to christ..
you hit the nail on the head. it's not so much the "ass beating" or the "smack", it's the correlation that kids make between action and consequence. no concequence, no correlation, no lesson. some kids just need a look, others need a smack, but they ALL need to be corrected when they act up. parents just don't seem to feel that responsibility any more. "listen lady, i don't give a shit about you or your stress. just be a fucking parent and keep your kid out of society's hair. the villiage no longer has the legal right to raise your kid for you so fucking do it yourself you stupid hag." that's what i want to say to those parents.I tried that once as a kid. Told my parents they couldn't touch me or I'de call the CPS. I was sure it would scare them off but they just started laughing at me. I told them I was serious and not fucking around at which point my my mother said to me, "I happen to know the police station is at least 15 minutes away and the local CPS office further than that. If you are going to call, call, but during those 15 minutes your ass is ours and that should be plenty of time." Then of course reminded me of the horrible conditions of group homes while spanking the crap out of me.
I now know I was a brat at that time but if it wasn't for the punishments I most likely would have never noticed and would probably be a brat to this date. It is just so sad when parents refuse to discipline thinking they are helping their kids when they are really just hurting them. Ever seen the ladies in the grocery store with the kids that just scream at the top of their lungs till they get everything they want? I come sooo close to going over and hitting the kids myself which, from what I hear, 30 years ago would have been the norm. Now a days I would get my ass sued off.
yah, i don't know how much room i have to talk being i'm not a parent myself, but my nephew is damn close to me, almost to the point that he considers me a father figure i like to think.. and even after i beat his ass the other day, the kid was all over my at my other sister house for easter dinner.. sits right next to me, put is head on my shoulder, he still knows i love him to death, just now he also knows that i'm not going to put up with any of his bullshit games either.. i kinda think it made him respect me more for it to be honest.. the week before i told him the next shit i hear about him, i'm going to beat his ass.. so, when i heard about his latest shit, i felt obligated to hold up my end of the bargain, otherwise, he never would have had any respect for me..you hit the nail on the head. it's not so much the "ass beating" or the "smack", it's the correlation that kids make between action and consequence. no concequence, no correlation, no lesson. some kids just need a look, others need a smack, but they ALL need to be corrected when they act up. parents just don't seem to feel that responsibility any more. "listen lady, i don't give a shit about you or your stress. just be a fucking parent and keep your kid out of society's hair. the villiage no longer has the legal right to raise your kid for you so fucking do it yourself you stupid hag." that's what i want to say to those parents.
That sounds insane.yah, i don't know how much room i have to talk being i'm not a parent myself, but my nephew is damn close to me, almost to the point that he considers me a father figure i like to think.. and even after i beat his ass the other day, the kid was all over my at my other sister house for easter dinner.. sits right next to me, put is head on my shoulder, he still knows i love him to death, just now he also knows that i'm not going to put up with any of his bullshit games either.. i kinda think it made him respect me more for it to be honest.. the week before i told him the next shit i hear about him, i'm going to beat his ass.. so, when i heard about his latest shit, i felt obligated to hold up my end of the bargain, otherwise, he never would have had any respect for me..
domestic violence?? honestly?? you've got to be kidding me?? no wonder why kids are out spray painting on peoples fences and shit.. i was beat as a kid, do i think i was molested?? fuck no.. do i think i deserved it?? fuck yes.. your right, its much better to put a kid into a time out when they steal from a neighbor or destroy someone's property..why are so many people PRO child molestation / domestic violence? especially on a pot site? I thought ya'll were supposed to be peacefull?
Well, this is "Toke and talk". You have people split on everything here. Conservatives, liberals, Chocolate, Vanilla. Just don't get offended mayne.why are so many people PRO child molestation / domestic violence? especially on a pot site? I thought ya'll were supposed to be peacefull?
call me insane then.. but i'll bet you what... my neighbors aren't going to catch my nephew destroying their property.. you better believe that...That sounds insane.
lol.. i've actually thought of this idea.. but the lil fucker isn't as dumb as he looks, and keeps switching up his times and shit.. it used to be right around 9 pm or so, but lately he's been coming earlier or later..LOL racerboy you know what you could do besides beating their ass or breaking their stuff, if you know of a "schedule" of when they normally come by like on the weekends or some shit you could be waiting outside in the bushes with a scary mask or something and scare the hell out of them, which isn't illegal if you don't want to risk anything. It may not be enough revenge but hell its an idea if you ever get the chance lol
Pro child molestation and domestic violence? I can see what you mean a litle but most of those comments are said in jest and are not to be taken seriously. This thread however, is just about kids not getting the proper punishment. The punishment doesn't have to be violent, especially in today's age where we can deprive them of so many things they take for granted, but if you don't follow through when you say your going to punish them they will walk all over you. Abusing a child is a lot different than spanking them on the ass when you told them you would and they disobeyed you anyways. I know when I was growing up the neighbors would have dragged my ass to my doorstep and tell my parents and they would sort me out, I think that's best in this kind of situation. The parents may not be aware that it's happening at least give them the opportunity to punish them as they see fit and hopefully they learn their lesson.why are so many people PRO child molestation / domestic violence? especially on a pot site? I thought ya'll were supposed to be peacefull?
Actually, us late 30 parents, at least this one, received plenty of ass whoopins. It' society that has us holding back. One non bruising ass smack does more good than all the time-outs in the world. However, if your kid should say Mommy hit me or Daddy spanked me, you can bet DYFS would be pounding on your door damn quick. My kids think I'm so strict, but my Mom was way more strict then me. I just got away with more cause she was at work til 6. I haunt my kids all the time!lucky for me i don't care what the little pukes or their parents think of me. as long as you don't lay hands on them you can pretty much do whatever you want. and by the way you can thank this pc nanny society that we live in where it's illegal to even look at your own kid sideways. the parents are the beginning of the "me" generation. it's us stupid fucking late 20 and 30-somethings who were raised to believe that discipline is bad and are raising their little crumb snatchers the same way. i'm one of those fucks who will tap the kid's bike with my car if he won't get out of the fucking road. then i air horn the fucker when i speed off. no, i'm not kidding. fuck them. i have no record. i'm saving it...