wtf women?

wheels619

wheels619

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ok serious shit. why cant most women just be on time. im not saying all women but most of them definitely. i mean wifey says ill be there soon and i say ok see you in 4 hours. she says. no your stupid. as she giggles and says i love you and hangs up. real shit. this bitch is pushing a little over 3 hours now while im sitting here bored out of my fucking mind without her even giving me the courtesy of a fucking phone call. im really starting to reconsider things a bit as we settle into a nice relationship comfort level becuz shit is starting to get out of fucking hand. i love her ass to death but sometimes a guy hits a breaking point right or am i just being a dick? or should i just keep my pimp hand strong? not literally but figuratively with yelling and shit like most gentlemen commonly do instead of actually strangling her like i feel like doing at times but would never actually consider doing. i know boo hoo but for fuck sake. come onnnn....!
 
cannabineer

cannabineer

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My recommendation is to sleep on it. Then tomorrow, in a calm manner, let her know that you appreciate punctuality (if that is the case) and would like more of it in the future. I would definitely nip this in the bud, but gently. If gently doesn't take, you have a start on reconsidering.
Happy new year anyway. cn
 
kinetic

kinetic

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I view consistent tardiness with lack of respect given. If you can't get to shit on time all the time I'll ask "why are you always late? Do you just not respect the time agreed upon or me?" It gets the point across regardless of their reply.
 
wheels619

wheels619

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cannabineer said:
My recommendation is to sleep on it. Then tomorrow, in a calm manner, let her know that you appreciate punctuality (if that is the case) and would like more of it in the future. I would definitely nip this in the bud, but gently. If gently doesn't take, you have a start on reconsidering.
Happy new year anyway. cn
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yeah. happy new year to you too. im being patient. its 33 minutes until new years. lets see if she makes it. if she is trashed im going to be over seeing her tonight really quick like. if she doesnt show im done. simple as that.
 
wheels619

wheels619

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kinetic said:
I view consistent tardiness with lack of respect given. If you can't get to shit on time all the time I'll ask "why are you always late? Do you just not respect the time agreed upon or me?" It gets the point across regardless of their reply.
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good point. well taking that one into consideration for her reaming in the near future. lol. thanks. smoking bowls being patient. this shit sucks.
 
Carne Seca

Carne Seca

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kinetic said:
I view consistent tardiness with lack of respect given. If you can't get to shit on time all the time I'll ask "why are you always late? Do you just not respect the time agreed upon or me?" It gets the point across regardless of their reply.
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You've been living around white folks. Indian time is when you get there. ;)
 
lahadaextranjera

lahadaextranjera

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Hey, if u go out with a German for 7 years then you know about punctuality. He used to go mental when I was late gettin ready. But who wants to be the first to arrive at a party?

I work with black guys now and they even ask me if I'm arriving on 'black peoples time or Spanish time?' lol!

Happy New Year guys! :)
 
Granny weed

Granny weed

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wheels619 said:
ok serious shit. why cant most women just be on time. im not saying all women but most of them definitely. i mean wifey says ill be there soon and i say ok see you in 4 hours. she says. no your stupid. as she giggles and says i love you and hangs up. real shit. this bitch is pushing a little over 3 hours now while im sitting here bored out of my fucking mind without her even giving me the courtesy of a fucking phone call. im really starting to reconsider things a bit as we settle into a nice relationship comfort level becuz shit is starting to get out of fucking hand. i love her ass to death but sometimes a guy hits a breaking point right or am i just being a dick? or should i just keep my pimp hand strong? not literally but figuratively with yelling and shit like most gentlemen commonly do instead of actually strangling her like i feel like doing at times but would never actually consider doing. i know boo hoo but for fuck sake. come onnnn....!
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Well it is said to be okay for a woman to be fashionably late but 3 hrs is taking the piss, perhaps you've let her get away with it to long and she thinks its okay so the solution is talk to each other, their has to be ground rules in all relationships I've been married a long time but we still have rules and no how far to push each other. Good luck and happy new year :smile:
 
wheels619

wheels619

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Granny weed said:
Well it is said to be okay for a woman to be fashionably late but 3 hrs is taking the piss, perhaps you've let her get away with it to long and she thinks its okay so the solution is talk to each other, their has to be ground rules in all relationships I've been married a long time but we still have rules and no how far to push each other. Good luck and happy new year :smile:
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hmm. we are going to talk this evening. not sure yet as to whether or not im going to end it. common courtesy towards each other should come naturally. it shouldnt have to be forced by one of the pissed off parties.
 
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rooky1985

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wheels619 said:
hmm. we are going to talk this evening. not sure yet as to whether or not im going to end it. common courtesy towards each other should come naturally. it shouldnt have to be forced by one of the pissed off parties.
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Always keep the pimp hand strong, but if she really respects/loves you she will here your concern and understand that she needs to make some changes and work on happiness for both parties. When I'm in arelationship I try to keep things strict at first as it is always harder to change something if you had let it slide previously. Ultimately if things don't feel right or she continuously abbuses your trust/feelings it is always best to stay pimp and let pony out of your stable so to speak.
 
tharoomman

tharoomman

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cannabineer said:
My recommendation is to sleep on it. Then tomorrow, in a calm manner, let her know that you appreciate punctuality (if that is the case) and would like more of it in the future. I would definitely nip this in the bud, but gently. If gently doesn't take, you have a start on reconsidering.
Happy new year anyway. cn
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Might sleep a little better if he "vented" a little to his wifey.
 
dirtsurfr

dirtsurfr

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If I'm going some place and she ain't ready I'll tell her the other car keys r on the table and I'll see her when she gets there.
 
cancer survivor

cancer survivor

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never had a problem like that? my girls are either with me or out partying with there freinds,i dont worry if there out i TRUST them. just like they trust me to show up at exactly 2:01 am when they walk out the back door of the strip club in mini skirts and 10" heels,they know i will be there to take em home,its a trust thing! do ya TRUST her? then stop sweating! peace man...
 
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