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Urca

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So I was wondering if I was right to be irritated by my sister's friend.
She has been over for a few dyas and thats whatever. Spent the 4th with us. But then like she's glued to the phone all night trying to get this dude she was talking to to come over to our house. without asking any of us, including our parents. He brings a mutual friend and Im like wtf? Like she invited two people over to my house to drink with us or whatever, but didnt run it by anyone. Then she put on facebook, "who's trying to match"
basically iniviting who ever to come over and bring some weed to match mine. I had no intentions of smoking everyone out, but since those boys came over and I want trying to be a cunt I smoked a blunt with them. Like its just irritating that she invited the boys over and got us in trouble, that she put on facebook that basically "hey my friend has weed and I didnt ask her if anyone else could join but come over and match us"
just irritating. and that she expected me to smoke everyone out.
 

Urca

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no one matched.
and like no one hould have to tell her that she should ask before inviting people over to other people's houses at 12 am to drink their beer and smoke their weed without bringing anything. especially since i told her when she vaguely mentioned it earlier that day that she shouldnt bring anyone over, my parents would be tripping, since they bought the booze and expected it to only be the three of us.
plus idk its just so irritating, especially since like i was put upon to smoke everyone out but i had only offered it to my sister and her friend as a fucking favor.
 

Corso312

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Why are you constantly being dramatic on the computer when you could solve all these issues by speaking to them.
 

Urca

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Why are you constantly being dramatic on the computer when you could solve all these issues by speaking to them.
i couldnt.
it'd be like world war 3.
they would be hella defensive and back each other up and it might escalate to bad points, knowing them. both got anger issues and have no problem getting into fist fights over nothing, because they get hella irritated if they get called on it
 

lokie

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You always come out the victim. why?

Should have kicked them all to the curb just like your other "friend" did to you recently.
 

Urca

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i didnt have to my stepdad flipped out and kicked out the guys.
and im not the victim here, just irritated.
 

charface

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Sounds like youd buddies are trolling for penis and using ur weed for bait.
When they are like that it will be like reasoning with a herion/penis addict.
They are running on instinct. God bless them. evry last one.
 

Urca

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i am rarely irritated like this, its just when I am and I have no outlet why cant i post it on here? Its not like I can say my opinion in the day to day without offending someone or causing a fight.
and i was asking for an opinion whether or not i should be irritated that all of that happened.
like no one else thinks that it is very rude?
jeeze but instead people just come on here to talk shit about me or fucking be all passive agressive by liking someone else talking shit.
its stupid.
 

Winter Woman

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the mistake was not saying something the moment you heard the word 'match'.

And now your business is all over the internet. Not cool, not cool at all.
 

KushXOJ

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Sounds like you need to start speaking up for youself so people don't use you as a door mat. Imo.

My "friends" would never do that without asking if it was ok with me before hand. Something called respect , which your "friends" obviously don't have for you /:
 

Urca

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not really. no one i know uses this, i figure most of you (especially you ww) have pretty good ideas and what not.
basically i need someone to say this too, and when people arent talking shit, they usually end up saying something helpful
 

Justin00

Active Member
idk that's one of the best parts of growing your own, not only do you have the best stuff in town, but you have enough of it to share. (still illegal here so you can't really sell it unless you wanna meet bubba)

the really annoying part of life is that once you are old enough to get all the stuff you have always wanted, no one has any to time to enjoy it or just hang out anymore. all you friends get married an start a family so they have more to complain about. Its weird, all married people ever do is bitch and moan about their spouse and kids.

ps: never trust a married person, if being married doesn't make them a liar in an of itself, (ex. honey, would you rather go get drunk with your friends or come to your son's ballet?) then you can be sure they are not withholding much from the warden.

i honestly only know one happy married person under 50. once you pass 50 you give up and just don't give a fuck anymore, and oddly enough that's when you start getting along it seems. lol sry about that out-of-nowhere rant.
 

Urca

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Sounds like you need to start speaking up for youself so people don't use you as a door mat. Imo.

My "friends" would never do that without asking if it was ok with me before hand. Something called respect , which your "friends" obviously don't have for you /:
she's my sister's best friend.
i like her most of the time.
but sometimes the things she does makes me think that she's not the kind of friend my sister needs.
 
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