Random Jibber Jabber Thread

sunni

sunni

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Balzac89 said:
I feel so vulnerable right now. My parents had me come over and the last time they did this they gave me the were worried about you drug talk.

This time my dad told me he's worried about me because i'm like him. He's really depressed and hes been taking opiates for while. He's gained a ton of weight and he sleeps all the time.

He basically told me he's waiting to die.

I told him i'm here for him and we can make changes to his lifestyle to fight the depression. I understand where he's coming from I get very depressed at times. I try to block it out by working.

He refused to make any changes and idk what to do. I'm worried he might kill himself.

I'm like on the verge of crying right now. I know what its like to feel so alone.
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You can't force anyone to change unfortunately
All you can do is be there when he needs you to be
Bring up option of change
If/when he's ready he will contact you
If he's not seeing someone professionally ask if he would like to
 
Balzac89

Balzac89

Undercover Mod
sunni said:
You can't force anyone to change unfortunately
All you can do is be there when he needs you to be
Bring up option of change
If/when he's ready he will contact you
If he's not seeing someone professionally ask if he would like to
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He's trying to reflect his issues on me and tell me hes worried about me.

The difference is I don't live a self destructive lifestyle like he does. (I quit smoking two years ago, I no longer eat meat and I have reduced junk food extensively.)

I don't have hardly any friends anymore because of school and working weird hours. He thinks i'm going to go the same way as him.
 
OOBubblesOO

OOBubblesOO

Well-Known Member
Balzac89 said:
He's trying to reflect his issues on me and tell me hes worried about me.

The difference is I don't live a self destructive lifestyle like he does. (I quit smoking two years ago, I no longer eat meat and I have reduced junk food extensively.)

I don't have hardly any friends anymore because of school and working weird hours. He thinks i'm going to go the same way as him.
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Keep your head up J to tha R-O-C.
Gnomesayin?

You guys can make it through this.

He's lucky to have you there for him.
 
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