Why do girls get pissed when you watch porn?

I see you took my comments personal. lol

I'm just saying, if a chick says she considers watching porn wrong, either dump the chick or stop watching porn.

Respect is important. My hubby doesnt like me watching porn. I don't like him watching porn. We find enjoyment in each other and honestly I find porn just makes me less attracted to him. All those dudes are RIPPED.
 
tyler.durden said:
Oh, I know. Believe me. I've been married twice ;)
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It's so ironic though, b/c while your earlier explanation makes total sense, it is the polar opposite of how most women think. Our biology is to "nest" I guess so we want security. Porn threatens that, b/c I suppose women see it as undermining their status as queen bee to their men. I think it's important to remember that mean are typically much more visual than women and are also able to compartmentalize sex as just sex. Women have a harder time separating emotion from sex so we find it repellant that men can. Of course not speaking for ALL women, just generalizing how our brains work.

@charface Your comment illustrates what goes through our brains sometimes. It can be one or all of the above you mentioned.


charface said:
Lets don't forget that some women can't even climax and have little desire for sex so I
Could see them being disgusted with us always tugging on our wieners and stuff.
Maybe dad fucked over mom and now she sees dad in you.
Last boyfriend cheated,
Born into a shame based family unit.
Just plain insecure, could be a million reasons.
Jesus after compiling that list I'm reminded of how lucky I was to marry a real s
Skank.
I love her
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*and there are some women who have actually never had any kind of good sex. For guys it's a sure thing, (that they will "finish") but with us, the brain is always connected and interfering when it shouldn't. (again, emotional intertwined w/ physical) So if a girl has had only shitty lovers, along with a bunch of other baggage she won't let go, she's NEVER going to enjoy it. Sort of off topic, but hopefully more insight.
 
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Hookabelly said:
It's so ironic though, b/c while your earlier explanation makes total sense, it is the polar opposite of how most women think. Our biology is to "nest" I guess so we want security. Porn threatens that, b/c I suppose women see it as undermining their status as queen bee to their men. I think it's important to remember that mean are typically much more visual than women and are also able to compartmentalize sex as just sex. Women have a harder time separating emotion from sex so we find it repellant that men can. Of course not speaking for ALL women, just generalizing how our brains work.
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Oh, I know. I've been married twice ;) It is ironic. Men have a difficult time understanding that women are wired the way that they are, especially why sex gets lumped in with emotions while it can be purely mechanical physical pleasure/release for us. Men seem to understand this in women more universally than women understand the male need for sexual variety and masturbation, probably because men have to in order to get laid with maximum effectiveness. If women could see that masturbating to porn helps make the relationship MORE secure, and helps secure her place as queen bee, that would take a lot of pressure off romantic relationships. Plus, it's less icky work for you women since we're doing it to ourselves...
 
tyler.durden said:
Men seem to understand this in women more universally than women understand the male need for sexual variety and masturbation, probably because men have to in order to get laid with maximum effectiveness. ..
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False, women secretly think their view of partnership is right and the emotions/committment should rule the relationship since it's more "elevated" and "evolved" than just accepting that men can separate the two.

IDK I *think* you're around my age and don't you notice in the past decade or so porn has now began to dictate what ppl do in the bedroom? In other words, men are now using phrases like

"dude I murdered that pussy" or "I tore her ass UP." almost more aggressive in tone than just enjoyable sex. Maybe since porn is so much more accessible and mainstream now women feel they have a certain physical standard to live up to? Can guys honestly say they separate their real life expectations in the bedroom from their fantasies?








tyler.durden said:
Oh, I know. I've been married twice ;) Plus, it's less icky work for you women since we're doing it to ourselves...
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If both your ex wives thought anything was "icky" regarding their man's normal physical response then I get why you have 2 ex wives. LOL (I meant that if they felt sex is icky then why pick that kind of woman? more of a commentary on the ex's shortcomings than yours) GAH I can't explain myself. Hope you get what I was trying to say.
 
ODanksta said:
So I was reading the match.com thread and I was seeing a lot of people say their girls got pissed when they watched porn. I had a ex like that, I'll never date a girl like that again.

I am not a cheater. Yes immoral thoughts at times. I'm pretty open at the beginning of the relationship. Im like "so how are we going to do this" I let them know it's cool if you want to fuck other guys but tell me now so I don't have to kill you later. I'm down with swinging but I need to know from the start.. Because there is obviously a different attachment.

But porn for fucks sake? If I walked into the room and caught my girl flicking the bean. Well I think that would be hot AF.. That's how every porn starts..

So this happened with a girl that I use to date that y'all know. Well one day she left a page open.. She had a strange fetish, lol.. Fat chicks belching and stuffing.. Seriously I was lmfao. I guess stuffing is when fat chicks eat to much??? Definitely not my genre of porn but whatever. She was so embarrassed it was pretty cute. So I told her about my weird fetishs that aren't to weird you know just the regular guy stuff like midget shemale amputees.

But seriously if my chic got mad at me for watching porn I would leave her so fast. Porn is a big part of my life.. It's like my oldest hobby and shit. I've seen like 7% of the worlds porn.

So to females users why do y'all care?
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I was playing when I wrote this obviously. I would respect her wishes. Watching porn with your girl is cool. But watching without her might be disrespectful. Especially if you're into some weird shit..
 
ODanksta said:
. Especially if you're into some weird shit..
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Years ago I was working for a manufacturing company and my phone rings. Its the CEO of the company asking me to go to the next office and see if the Production Manager is on his computer right now. So, I walk over and look in the window and yeah he's on his computer.
So I get back on the phone and say " Yeah looks like he's doin somethin on it"... The CEO says " Yeah what he's doing is watching a movie of people rubbing shit all over each other"
Turns out, he was with the company IT guy and of course, they had the ability to monitor every screen in the company from miles away.
So yeah, he got fired. Actually, when he was confronted with it, he just got his shit and left.
 
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