im4satori
Well-Known Member
your looking for someone to say
"you got something simple wrong and you just need to add more of this or that"
but its much more involved than your recognizing
nobody wants to here "your grow is fucked up"
that's not helpful and there are more tactful ways to get that message out
it puts you on the defense and makes you question positive advise... I get that
I also understand that when dealing with new peeps on the web you don't want to take the first person word for it because he might be full of shit so I get asking around for several opinions to build a consensus
but if you get past the negative tones theres good info in there from several
"you got something simple wrong and you just need to add more of this or that"
but its much more involved than your recognizing
nobody wants to here "your grow is fucked up"
that's not helpful and there are more tactful ways to get that message out
it puts you on the defense and makes you question positive advise... I get that
I also understand that when dealing with new peeps on the web you don't want to take the first person word for it because he might be full of shit so I get asking around for several opinions to build a consensus
but if you get past the negative tones theres good info in there from several