To a certain extent, I agree. The majority of the lights that people are buying and using in their grows are of the cheaply built, snake-oil variety. I'm probably going to be purchasing a few that, by the research I've done, *should* be better quality than those. Once I've bought and received them, I will more than likely take them apart and post pictures online describing my finds.
That said, once I determine, for myself, the advantages of LED lighting, I'm planning to build myself a 300W LED "pole" to be used in a V-ScrOG cabinet setup, using high-powered 5W LedEngin chips.
I will disagree on one of your points though. LEDs are only spotlights if they have a narrow beam angle. The vast majority of LEDs used in these grow lights use a 120-degree beam angle, and as such, don't have that one "bright spot" that you are describing. In fact, if you were growing only 1 or 2 plants under a 90W UFO, a narrow beam angle would actually be advantageous, as the light would be more concentrated in a smaller area, and thus would penetrate the canopy more. For a larger grow, a higher-wattage, wider beam angle is advantageous.