robert 14617
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so you never fu*ked up mygirls i know i have
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mygirls
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oh many of time..im not perfect.
just never got caught.. well once i got caught stealing a candy bar from safeway. LOL i was 19 at the time. that was the end of that. talk about being emmbarest...
metaltooths
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maybe it's not such a bad idea.
a 'real' job like yours is what stopped me from continuing to be an asshole kid.(getting in trouble and what not.)
HoLE
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LOL,,mine started with a candy bar from a Robinsons Department store,,,,but I was 9
HoLE
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I hear ya metaltooths,,,,I just repaired a 20 year olds life to the point where his own parents are willing to help him out again,,,,,but he is only 14,,and it's a shit job,,I've been doing it since I was young and have had 2 good falls causing crushed heels and fractured ankles,,an L4-5 disc surgery from repetitive use,,and a miniscal knee surgery,,all from roofing,,next I'm gonna see a pshych to find out why I still do it
metaltooths
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yeah there are some risks, and some shit bosses out there. maybe just some weekends like you mentioned earlier.
not knocking macd's or anything of the sort, but i woulda gave a shit about that type jib as a kid.
hard work=hard lessons?
i'm sure you guys'll work it out.though today might not be much fun. good luck dude.
i gotta get to work...macd's has a one up on the consrtuction field, as 40hrs is all but guaranteed.
Murfy
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the happiest people are the one's that work the hardest!
and with your dad! i've worked hard outside with my family since i could walk, and now that i'm grown wouldn't change it for the world, AND give it to my sons the same way
IMO the most important thing is to make him realize everyone fucks up in life, BUT BEING A LIAR IS THE WORST, own up to what you've done and the truth will help liberate you from making poor decisions, the lie hides the fact
and with your dad! i've worked hard outside with my family since i could walk, and now that i'm grown wouldn't change it for the world, AND give it to my sons the same way
IMO the most important thing is to make him realize everyone fucks up in life, BUT BEING A LIAR IS THE WORST, own up to what you've done and the truth will help liberate you from making poor decisions, the lie hides the fact
HoLE
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thxs Murfy,,like I told him,,if he is honest,,I will be there,,if he lies,,I'm walkin
HoLE
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thxs mygirls,,,
hahaha...couldnt help it. high as a mothafucka
HoLE
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I thought of that yesterday,,he still has stolen goods which we are turning over to the cops,,but I thought,,what if we went to the house he stole it from and gave it back,,,,he's already being charged,,,but then I thought,,if it was my house ,,I wouldn't want that person on or near my property,,,,,they have been violated in a major way and may not take to well to him and I at there door
HoLE
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jokes go in Stonable Quotables Hauvert
gogrow
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sorry to hear about the troubles bro.... From personal experience, I would say to just be there for him as a father. and now that would entail keeping him under your watchful eye and having his privileges/possessions (that you bought) stripped from him.... He now has to EARN your trust, its not given.....
and I would put his ass on the roof bro.... he needs to experience dad's life... real life, and how people really get things they want.... also, you can watch him more that way; you send him off to work at a restaurant, he'll be spending his paycheck on drugs before he comes home....
just my opinion.... I've been in his shoes before, not too long ago really.... and everyday I look at my two boys, I hope and pray I never have to see them be idiots.
CLOSETGROWTH
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I wouldn't be so hard on yourself bro..
You gave him love, and support, and luxuries and a roof over his head..
Its time for him to face reality, and be responsible.
You cant do everything for him.
Maybe detention will wake him up.
It will be alright buddy.. Be strong and dont blame yourself for any of this.
You gave him love, and support, and luxuries and a roof over his head..
Its time for him to face reality, and be responsible.
You cant do everything for him.
Maybe detention will wake him up.
It will be alright buddy.. Be strong and dont blame yourself for any of this.
HoLE
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yes he does have some earning back to do,,he has been stripped of his laptop(where he sold a stolen item on Kijjiji)he has been stripped of his longboard,,he has been stripped of his Fit One Bmx,,,he is under my house arrest till his court is finished,,and he is given just enough time to get to school in the morning and has to be back immediately after school,,,and I am now considering bringing him to work,,,thxs gogrow
HoLE
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thxs CLOSETGROWTH,,,,I didn't sleep well last night and my eyes keep welling up,,he is really a good kid and needs to spend more time doing something constructive as opposed to chillin with friends