haha you poor bugger! lol my monday started shitty, been in a weird way since the shit went down with the crazy wench in the wee hours of sunday morn but i decided to suck it up and soldier on lol we will suss things out over the next day or so and if worse comes to worse i have a mate who will take my shit and finish it off, and gimme half. so all is not completely lost, it's just a massive pain in the arse. also pretty disappointed that she would pass judgement on our parenting skills when i had to look after her child (not my husband, she had one a fair bit later on) for over a year, for most of which i was pregnant, she didn't pay anything she barely called him, i did everything for him and not coz i wanted a gold star but because SOMEONE needed to give that kid a bit of stability.
thats a shitty situation, i feel for you kmoo. sometimes you just have to take the moral high ground however much you want to kick off. you never know in years to come you might make it up.
ok rant over lol
hope ya feel better mate, i dont touch the beer and wine myself - makes me very very messy. will dabble with the spirits on rare occasions tho, mmmm