Alright so today i got another light, made another room and found 1 male and 4 females out of 5. So i split them up , 2 under each lite, did a half-assed flush, taking the bottom soil under the roots out and then double potting them adding about another gallon of soil. Then fed them with just 2 table spoons Fox Farm Big Bloom since it already got its 3 weeks of grow big. Will probably just use this mixture until flowering. Hopefully that gets them their phosphorous/magnesium. Thats all i red about the red stems is phosphorous deficiencies causing red stems so i hope it works! The dead leafs still worry me though.