incognegro999
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I cant help but think about the movie tokyo drift everytime you post. that party in the car shop.
Cops just came to the apartment due to a complaint against my bf
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Samatha Green
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I think your boy friend is right. You seem to be dependent on weed, based on what you told us in your past few threads, you at one point where even snorting smoke to try to get higher. Then the post about smoking 4 bowls and freaking out and thinking that people where after you or whatever, and then the whole suicide thing.
These are not normal problems to be facing within a 2 week period of time. I can only dream of the drama that unfolds in your world the remaining of the 50 weeks.
So my advise to you would be let him sell your bong like he wants to, then use that money to buy some nicotine gum, so you don't need the "50" cigs a day. Clean up your apartment and do the dishes. Tell him your sorry for waking him up from his sleep, and not having the place cleaned up, then make him a nice sandwich. If your lucky he will forgive you and help you work out all the problems your having.
Good luck girl! and remember sometimes smoking weed is NOT the answer .
These are not normal problems to be facing within a 2 week period of time. I can only dream of the drama that unfolds in your world the remaining of the 50 weeks. So my advise to you would be let him sell your bong like he wants to, then use that money to buy some nicotine gum, so you don't need the "50" cigs a day. Clean up your apartment and do the dishes. Tell him your sorry for waking him up from his sleep, and not having the place cleaned up, then make him a nice sandwich. If your lucky he will forgive you and help you work out all the problems your having.
Good luck girl! and remember sometimes smoking weed is NOT the answer .
geewhizimtheshiz
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I think your boy friend is right. You seem to be dependent on weed, based on what you told us in your past few threads, you at one point where even snorting smoke to try to get higher. Then the post about smoking 4 bowls and freaking out and thinking that people where after you or whatever, and then the whole suicide thing.
So my advise to you would be let him sell your bong like he wants to, then use that money to buy some nicotine gum, so you don't need the "50" cigs a day. Clean up your apartment and do the dishes. Tell him your sorry for waking him up from his sleep, and not having the place cleaned up, then make him a nice sandwich. If your lucky he will forgive you and help you work out all the problems your having.
Good luck girl! and remember sometimes smoking weed is NOT the answer .
i'm not his maid and i will continue smoking my blunt. thanks anyway
Samatha Green
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i'm not his maid and i will continue smoking my blunt. thanks anyway
That's the problem.
geewhizimtheshiz
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that's your opinion, thanks for it, i appreciate it.
medicalmaryjane
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Are you financially dependent on this person?
Why can't you leave him? the relationship obviouslyn isn't a good one. Trust me, I know about being stuck, I've been there & it's bad. Gotta do whatever you gotta to get out.
Why can't you leave him? the relationship obviouslyn isn't a good one. Trust me, I know about being stuck, I've been there & it's bad. Gotta do whatever you gotta to get out.
grobofotwanky
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I've never heard a version of this where the dude was pissed cause his girl smoked. I thought only ladies got mad at us for smoking all day. lol. At least my wife has accepted the fact that I'm a full blown weed junkie!
ndzbnln
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truely this month lol...crazy anxiety kills
wyteberrywidow
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This is it you have 2 choices either stay with him and his pissy attitude moanig bllshit when asked to join a shower and bitching about everything or leave him alone find someone who is willing to shower with you anytime and fuck dogshit out of you at any given moment then when done smoke a bowl with you to savor the moment
Medical Grade
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oh here comes the roll it up university doctorate program graduate.. and his .02 cents.
tip top toker
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Don't really see where the issue was myself, the boyfriend aside. They had no legal ability to enter your apartment wihtout your consent. You simply walk out of the front door and tell them to go away.
thedoc08
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You should give me more credit than that, the doctorate program here means nothing more than your GED.
SmokeyMcSmokester
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i dont mean to be a dick in any way...but your bf sounds like a royal fuckin douche. bitchin at you about the apartment and dishes?? if you have an older brother or a really good guy friend, an ass whoopin is order for that puke of a man you call a bf.Cops just came to the house about an hour ago because someone upstairs thought someone in our apartment was being abused.
Hell, I would've thought the same, too.
I woke up, wanted to take a shower, and asked my bf if he'd like to join.
He griped and complained about it all the way to the bathroom to the point where i just looked at him, astonished by his childish demeanor, and told him to just forget about it and I'll take a shower by myself.
He walks out of the bathroom, starts yelling about the apartment not being clean and starts throwing dishes around in the sink while he curses about this and that.
I didn't want to hear his negativity so I said, dude, this is ridiculous...I don't want to hear any of your negative comments. He became so pissed off, he started punching the bathroom door repeatedly and yelling.
I locked the door and that made him even more pissed off and he started yelling again and throwing shit..immediately after that, someone knocks at the door.
I immediately knew it had to be the cops---it was.
I start running around the house soaked and naked while hiding my bong, my bowl, and my stash.
I ran back into the bedroom and started drying off while my boyfriend opened the door to FOUR fucking cops with guns out???
My boyfriend went outside and started talking to the cops and a few minutes later the officer asked to speak with me and I started throwing clothes on...
The officer was actually very nice and told me, hey you know, people fight, just try not to be so loud.
We really were lucky...especially due to the fact that this happened once before AND we just found out TWO cops live RIGHT ABOVE US. fml.
After the cops leave, my bf immediately states I'm going to sell my bong and bowl and my stash or our relationship is over. If I don't quit smoking, he'll be done with me.
I told him if I quit bud, I'll smoke fifty million cigarettes and he said if I did that then we're done as well..
I'm really just lost for words at this time and I haven't been able to smoke ALL FUCKING DAY so I'm really a wreck right now.
I think this is complete and total bull shit and I'm about to fucking end this bullshit relationship and go find someone who will fucking accept me for WHO I AM.
SmokeyMcSmokester
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better yet...DONT ANSWER THE DOOR!! lol
thedoc08
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I think it would be bitch for a guy that lives with a girl not to get amp'd over dishes being in the sink and the apartment not being spotless. Why else go through the hassle if it's not going to pay off?
tip top toker
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Nah, in a situation like that the police have a small window of making a judgement call. Police have power of entry without a search warrant under a variety of reasons indcluding when they think that a life is at risk. They could force entry under the pretence that someone had phoned in very very concerned for somneones welfare, as is seen by the 4 officers with guns drawn. You open the door, close it behind you, tell them there is nothing going on and no issue and that it's nowt but a bad assumption on someone elses part and to kindly leave you alone as they no longer have any valid reason to be there let alone make entry. You have removed any small capability they may have had. although if the police live above you, they might try and con their way in asking for a bowl of sugar
SmokeyMcSmokester
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idk man...i grew up in a town where youre lucky if the chick knows how to cook..so i dont see myself getting mad at a chick for that shit...plus, i clean my own mess when i make it...
personally i could never live with anyone.
RawBudzski
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Who the Hell Would Wanna Shower with an Oompa Loompa.
Cops just came to the house about an hour ago because someone upstairs thought someone in our apartment was being abused.
Hell, I would've thought the same, too.
I woke up, wanted to take a shower, and asked my bf if he'd like to join.
He griped and complained about it all the way to the bathroom to the point where i just looked at him, astonished by his childish demeanor, and told him to just forget about it and I'll take a shower by myself.
He walks out of the bathroom, starts yelling about the apartment not being clean and starts throwing dishes around in the sink while he curses about this and that.
I didn't want to hear his negativity so I said, dude, this is ridiculous...I don't want to hear any of your negative comments. He became so pissed off, he started punching the bathroom door repeatedly and yelling.
I locked the door and that made him even more pissed off and he started yelling again and throwing shit..immediately after that, someone knocks at the door.
I immediately knew it had to be the cops---it was.
I start running around the house soaked and naked while hiding my bong, my bowl, and my stash.
I ran back into the bedroom and started drying off while my boyfriend opened the door to FOUR fucking cops with guns out???
My boyfriend went outside and started talking to the cops and a few minutes later the officer asked to speak with me and I started throwing clothes on...
The officer was actually very nice and told me, hey you know, people fight, just try not to be so loud.
We really were lucky...especially due to the fact that this happened once before AND we just found out TWO cops live RIGHT ABOVE US. fml.
After the cops leave, my bf immediately states I'm going to sell my bong and bowl and my stash or our relationship is over. If I don't quit smoking, he'll be done with me.
I told him if I quit bud, I'll smoke fifty million cigarettes and he said if I did that then we're done as well..
I'm really just lost for words at this time and I haven't been able to smoke ALL FUCKING DAY so I'm really a wreck right now.
I think this is complete and total bull shit and I'm about to fucking end this bullshit relationship and go find someone who will fucking accept me for WHO I AM.
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