I need help/venting about this super jerk from work.

FriendlyGuy

Well-Known Member
lol super jerk?what are you like 8?
once again I didnt know we could curse, cuz I coulda sworn I sent a post but I said ASSHOLE in it and it didnt pop up.. so i figured it didnt pop up because I said that..

by super jerk i meant a super fucking asshole.

I curse a lot. im 19 lmfao
You have 5,351 posts so mad respect to you kind sir. *Bows down*
 

medicalmaryjane

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Why don't you just confront him and ask him why he said what he said and tell him you found it offensive and that if he goes around spouting off beind your back you will rough him up LOL. I always confront assholes. You should have done it right then and theere. He will cower, they always do. They don't expect anyone to confront them. If someone disrespects you, say smething to their face.
 

FriendlyGuy

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Why don't you just confront him and ask him why he said what he said and tell him you found it offensive and that if he goes around spouting off beind your back you will rough him up LOL. I always confront assholes. You should have done it right then and theere. He will cower, they always do. They don't expect anyone to confront them. If someone disrespects you, say smething to their face.
Honestly I was just so shocked someone said that WITH a disgusted face.. it was so odd.. (oh Disgusted Green Goblin face btw)
But yeah EVERYTHING you just said was EXACTLY the way I think and it was exactly what I was going to do.. but I just think I should ignore him now instead of starting a confrontation, but if he says something about my silence than I will tell him I just found what he said offensive and I dont see a benefit in affiliating myself with people who would talk shit like that.

I never thought that people never expect to be confronted.. lol I always confront people straight up..
But work is different you know? at my old job there was a fat ass book thing of all the rules and i thought they were general rules, one said

During work you must not embarass anyone.

I think really fast and I can rag on a mother fucker like a nigga say do! haha (Jigga Boo Jones)
But what stopped me was my work ethic that I have been taught from my first job, and how I was raised to act in a public work environment.
 

canuckgrow

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Not that there is anything wrong with homosexuality....But I always new the gym atmosphere was gay......I don't care about your backfat I just want my 3 minutes back that it took to read your OP.....at 19 years old.....you got a long hard life ahead of you if you are worried about what some douche says about you LOL.
 

FriendlyGuy

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Not that there is anything wrong with homosexuality....But I always new the gym atmosphere was gay......I don't care about your backfat I just want my 3 minutes back that it took to read your OP.....at 19 years old.....you got a long hard life ahead of you if you are worried about what some douche says about you LOL.
Whats up with peopel saying this kinda shit.at 19 years old im pretty set dude. All i gotta do is get my education. I dont even need to work, i just love helping people meet there fitness goals, of course I put off working at a gym for a year, but before that year I was considered one of the youngest gym gurus out here. if your looking at life as half a cup EMPTY than you needa rethink your priorities in life man, thats what i caught from your lil "I just want my 3 minutes back from reading this"As we speak im at work right now typing to you, im not wasting my time cuz either way im still going to be at work and gettin paid a little (not as much as I would want, but hey, free membership) And OK lol apparently hot ass girls in spandex seems gay to you...and its only gay if you walk in and have that mindset, I never even thought of it as being gay just competitive.. lmfao you should look into your sexuality, i mean unless you know your gay, than I guess kudos but you dont needa put down shit with your time, THATS a waste of time.. and this was only 3 minutes, Im sure your doing this all over on threads.Its all gonna add up man, next thing you know YOU just wasted your life. If you read something you dont like, move on, dont just talk about how much time you wasted. duuurrpp
 

FriendlyGuy

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ahhaaaa!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! it is the PROXY!!! Im seperating my paragraphs but when I send it doesnt go through! I just tried to edit it, so HA! I told you guys!
 

StonedPony

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hell you are the dick....you asked his oppinon and he gave it to you......now you a stitting around franting over it and plotting some eveil deed to pay him back for something he has already forgotten about............dont have much of a life if you fret about what ppl say....and DEMANDING respect is stupid as hell.........you have to earn it its not given.
 

thedoc08

New Member
The first thing I'm going to say is that I feel bad for you. You seem pretty defenseless, and a whole bunch of big words that Psych101 didn't cover. Fortunately for you, given the extrinsic forces at work on this post, I'll be taking it easy on you.

when i sent the message I noticed it had no paragraphs so i clicked edit and attached paragraphs but to even go on here i have to use a proxy and i guess it didnt go thru.

In that case I forgive you, and don't hate you for not using paragraphs.

Im not self conscious but I am at the same time.. I wanted to be a bodybuilder so i always payed attention to every part of my body so I can work at the parts that I need to get bigger, its just something that naturally occurs..

Your post seemed pretty self-conscious especially for a dude. Me, I'm like 5'10" / 150lbs...yet as a result from all the beers I consume on the regular I can push my stomach out and look like I'm about 8 and a half months along. If someone ever called me fat, I'd prolly just pat my gut and say I'm overdue. I always wanted to be an astronaut so I went on a lot of airplanes to get used to flying. I'll never be an astronaut, and you'll never be a bodybuilder, but I still catch a plane a few times a year. I guess what I'm trying to say is; don't lose your dinosaur.

haha and dont be a jerk just because you thought I ignorantly didnt seperate my paragraphs, this is my first time using a forum, i didnt even consider it, the only time i seperate things into paragraphs is on facebook in a regular message or comment. plus I was at WORK so i couldnt just focus all my time into that when I have members coming in, with a rush to work out.

Trust me, I go after content and not format. You use paragraphs on Facebook though? I don't think I put together more than one sentence at a time to someone on Facebook, but then again, everyone's opinion of me does not mean the world to me. Perhaps using the computer while at work is what's causing your obesity. I'm not saying to take advice from a fat guy, but if I cared about my weight I'd prolly be working out rather than smoking, eating, and posting. You have no one to blame but yourself.


ANYWAY i dont blame you, Im still known as a stranger on here, but once I hit thousands of posts and i start growing denser, fuller buds than you, than maybe you'll realize that you should keep an open mind and give the benefit of the doubt to people you DONT KNOW instead of judging right off the bat,

I have 1,000+ posts and grow dense full buds and nobody respects my posts around here. Also, I would never push that as a reason why someone should respect my posts about my weight problem. You could be the Phil Ivey (read: Tiger Woods pre downfall) of growing, and make bad posts like your original and still get shit on.

Ok because 16% body fat is totally Obese.. OH WAIT! you wouldnt know that cuz you didnt read the post! because you just want to add a post onto your record..

Post count is meaningless. Post count to angry people ratio is what this thread boosted. You're right about not being obese, my mistake. However, 19% body fat is the cutoff from healthy to overfat for 20 to 29 year old males. I figured since as the age goes up, the acceptable fat % goes up, inversely, when the age goes down so does the acceptable fat % in each category. Considering the fact that 19 is too young for the charts, I'll subtract 3% to make 16% the cutoff for overfat, and you sir, are overfat.



its crazy because your going to go to sleep knowing you didnt accomplish anything today, and im going to sleep knowing I called you out on your sh!t
AND because my bi's tri's forearms are recovering from last night.

It's crazy how easy I slept last night without worrying if anyone at work thinks I'm fat. Wasn't an emotional wreck all night tossing and turning and sobbing. Certainly you attempted to call me out, but considering how I've addressed and flipped every point you made, I'd say that backfired. Oh, "AND" your arms are sore. Congratulations on all your accomplishments, I could only aspire to achieve half of what you accomplished yesterday.
 

FriendlyGuy

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hell you are the dick....you asked his oppinon and he gave it to you......now you a stitting around franting over it and plotting some eveil deed to pay him back for something he has already forgotten about............dont have much of a life if you fret about what ppl say....and DEMANDING respect is stupid as hell.........you have to earn it its not given.
I asked if his left hand gets numb/forearm gets numb randomly like mine.. and he said something TOTALLY off topic, dont put words in my mouth asshole. actually read the dam post before you run off your mouth. I dont demand respect.Im just nice and people are nice back, for assholes I dont really care, but when someone verbally attacks me like that when Im asking for HELP about me either having carpel tunnel or an early sign of a stroke.. thats just fucked.. you could tell he doesnt burn. haha
 

hughesresearch

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catch him somewhere out of work and beat his ass or pay a few hundred for a gang member to. its not the respect you want, but there is a fine line in respect and feared.
 

StonedPony

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catch him somewhere out of work and beat his ass or pay a few hundred for a gang member to. its not the respect you want, but there is a fine line in respect and feared.
Going to stick my neck out on a limb and say there is a big differanc in respect and fear........someone respects is more then likey to help you in a time of need.............someone who is feared will be fucked if he or she needs help........even though fear gets same results while things are smooth............
 

hughesresearch

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Going to stick my neck out on a limb and say there is a big differanc in respect and fear........someone respects is more then likey to help you in a time of need.............someone who is feared will be fucked if he or she needs help........even though fear gets same results while things are smooth............
true, but that guy isnt going to respect him unless something that guy is into suddenly your the best at. i prefer to use fear to make people leave me alone or even better-to just leave.
 

FriendlyGuy

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MESSAGE FOR THEDOC08
Sorry guys I dont know how to multi quote I clicked it but there was just too much code I didnt wanna mess with so I deleted because I didnt want random characters inside quotes.. I just dont know how to do it im sorry guys :(
Doc 08 if you are going to ignore what I typed i urge you to read the end man because thats coming from the heart and despite our differences It contains advice that will benefit you in life AND your dream job man.

"You seem pretty defenseless, and a whole bunch of big words that Psych101 didn't cover."
----....Durrrp?


"In that case I forgive you, and don't hate you for not using paragraphs."
-----Sweet! thanx for understanding! xD


"Your post seemed pretty self-conscious especially for a dude."
-------Thats what a year of not working out gets you dropping you from almost 200 to 169. (bear in mind of not working out)

"Me, I'm like 5'10" / 150lbs...yet as a result from all the beers I consume on the regular I can push my stomach out and look like I'm about 8 and a half months along."
----LMFAO your funny man I like that type of humor.

"If someone ever called me fat, I'd prolly just pat my gut and say I'm overdue."
---------Yeah well thats cuz you made the decision of drinking, for me my only gym in the city shut down due to budget issues, I never had a car to take me to the other gym. nor the will to spend the 100 bucks starting up fee and the 70-80 dollar monthly fee. either way I wasnt going to head over 5 miles on foot id get tired by the time I get there and my timing for my supplements would be off track.


"I always wanted to be an astronaut so I went on a lot of airplanes to get used to flying. I'll never be an astronaut, and you'll never be a bodybuilder"
-------LOL you not becoming an astronaut is because of your attitude right there. and ANYONE can become a bodybuilder thats the glory of it! thats why im so willing to help you guys out in something im ACTUALLY knowledgable in, but thats because I love how everyone actually CARES for people they dont know, and thats EXACTLY what goes on in the gym, I dont know the people there, yet I still help them out with form if they need it, or I would spot them so they dont smash the weights on themselves, thats just the type of guy I am, I dont want to see anyone get hurt, and I dont like seeing people waste there time.

"I guess what I'm trying to say is; don't lose your dinosaur."
----Im sorry I dont understand what the dinosaur is in this case..please explain? :]


"Trust me, I go after content and not format. You use paragraphs on Facebook though?"
----Yeah lol but only in messages, for comments its not necessary so I just type a couple sentences.

"Perhaps using the computer while at work is what's causing your obesity"
---------You forgot that Muscle mass is something to account for in that chart. im 16% body fat but my lats are huge, legs are still good in size and triceps are big too.
BTW those are the only parts on me that are still cut that are big enough to be worthy for me to type in. my abs are still showing but Its not necessary to even include that because im only discussing big parts of my body and abs are kinda just.. small.

"I'm not saying to take advice from a fat guy, but if I cared about my weight I'd prolly be working out rather than smoking, eating, and posting."
----Lol I care about my weight n all but maan I just love to burn, and im starting to just drink flavored waters instead of eating lmfao dont you think thats more effecient? worst case scenario is that my body will stay hydrated ha

"You have no one to blame but yourself."
True, but the same could be said for anyone in any aspect of their life, after all.. it is YOUR life.. so of course, why would I be blaming anyone else?
and its just the fact that i was talking to him about my SYMPTOMS which was either carpel tunnel or early sign of stroke.. and he said this.. THATS why im calling him an asshole.. people shouldnt be acting like that to some guy who had a genuine question, and I looked it up and its common for young people to have strokes, its scary man. I seriously hope you dont have to go through what I did.


"I have 1,000+ posts and grow dense full buds and nobody respects my posts around here."
----Well.. of course man, your acting like a dick...well at least to me and since we have been posting for a bit im sure its safe to say you are actually a dick.. lmfao

"Also, I would never push that as a reason why someone should respect my posts about my weight problem."
---No I pushed it as a reason to show that people who you talk shit to, could end up better than you and heck, we could be giving each other advice one time or another, but being an asshole isnt the way to start it.


"Post count is meaningless. Post count to angry people ratio is what this thread boosted. You're right about not being obese, my mistake. However, 19% body fat is the cutoff from healthy to overfat for 20 to 29 year old males. I figured since as the age goes up, the acceptable fat % goes up, inversely, when the age goes down so does the acceptable fat % in each category. Considering the fact that 19 is too young for the charts, I'll subtract 3% to make 16% the cutoff for overfat, and you sir, are overfat. "
----once again the charts are wrong I had just went to my doctor 2 weeks ago and he OBVIOUSLY could see I wasnt over weight I even told him based on the charts it appears im unhealthy, thats when he mentioned muscle mass being a factor thats tough to account for.





"It's crazy how easy I slept last night without worrying if anyone at work thinks I'm fat."
----Lol thats cuz you drink and dont really care bro, people go to the gym because they care about there body and WORRY about the condition of their health...duuurrp

"Wasn't an emotional wreck all night tossing and turning and sobbing."
----I actually went to sleep in less than 5 min knowing my bodys recovering and rebuilding my muscle, and pretty soon Ill be able to say my plants are growin go0d! with my room smoked out lmfao xD

"Certainly you attempted to call me out, but considering how I've addressed and flipped every point you made, I'd say that backfired."
---True but now im at home this time where I can take the time to address everything YOUR saying and tell you this.
Everything you are saying would be valid IF you werent wrong lmfao, you think im fat, im not, it doesnt even seem you are factoring WHAT I asked him first, You are not factoring in that im a really nice guy with a genuine concern about my life, You are just a negative person especially with that astronaut story, you just gotta do the small things to get you there, and drinking until you can look 8 months pregnant on command isnt taking you closer to your goal. and the cool part is, its still not too late for you man! if you can still get ur ass on that plane than I challenge you to take the necessary baby steps to get your ass on that space shuttle my friend!

Thank you roll it up.
 

thedoc08

New Member
you multi quote by typing [.quote] insert shit to quote here [./quote]

without the periods in each bracket. Fix that post up and I'll read it.
 

FriendlyGuy

Well-Known Member
i urge you to read the end man because thats coming from the heart and despite our differences It contains advice that will benefit you in life AND your dream job man.

You seem pretty defenseless, and a whole bunch of big words that Psych101 didn't cover.
----....Durrrp?


In that case I forgive you, and don't hate you for not using paragraphs.
-----Sweet! thanx for understanding! xD


Your post seemed pretty self-conscious especially for a dude.
-------Thats what a year of not working out gets you dropping you from almost 200 to 169. (bear in mind of not working out)

Me, I'm like 5'10" / 150lbs...yet as a result from all the beers I consume on the regular I can push my stomach out and look like I'm about 8 and a half months along.
----LMFAO your funny man I like that type of humor.

If someone ever called me fat, I'd prolly just pat my gut and say I'm overdue.
---------Yeah well thats cuz you made the decision of drinking, for me my only gym in the city shut down due to budget issues, I never had a car to take me to the other gym. nor the will to spend the 100 bucks starting up fee and the 70-80 dollar monthly fee. either way I wasnt going to head over 5 miles on foot id get tired by the time I get there and my timing for my supplements would be off track.


I always wanted to be an astronaut so I went on a lot of airplanes to get used to flying. I'll never be an astronaut, and you'll never be a bodybuilder
-------LOL you not becoming an astronaut is because of your attitude right there. and ANYONE can become a bodybuilder thats the glory of it! thats why im so willing to help you guys out in something im ACTUALLY knowledgable in, but thats because I love how everyone actually CARES for people they dont know, and thats EXACTLY what goes on in the gym, I dont know the people there, yet I still help them out with form if they need it, or I would spot them so they dont smash the weights on themselves, thats just the type of guy I am, I dont want to see anyone get hurt, and I dont like seeing people waste there time.

I guess what I'm trying to say is; don't lose your dinosaur.
----Im sorry I dont understand what the dinosaur is in this case..please explain? :]


Trust me, I go after content and not format. You use paragraphs on Facebook though?
----Yeah lol but only in messages, for comments its not necessary so I just type a couple sentences.

Perhaps using the computer while at work is what's causing your obesity
---------You forgot that Muscle mass is something to account for in that chart. im 16% body fat but my lats are huge, legs are still good in size and triceps are big too.
BTW those are the only parts on me that are still cut that are big enough to be worthy for me to type in. my abs are still showing but Its not necessary to even include that because im only discussing big parts of my body and abs are kinda just.. small.

I'm not saying to take advice from a fat guy, but if I cared about my weight I'd prolly be working out rather than smoking, eating, and posting.
----Lol I care about my weight n all but maan I just love to burn, and im starting to just drink flavored waters instead of eating lmfao dont you think thats more effecient? worst case scenario is that my body will stay hydrated ha

You have no one to blame but yourself.
True, but the same could be said for anyone in any aspect of their life, after all.. it is YOUR life.. so of course, why would I be blaming anyone else?
and its just the fact that i was talking to him about my SYMPTOMS which was either carpel tunnel or early sign of stroke.. and he said this.. THATS why im calling him an asshole.. people shouldnt be acting like that to some guy who had a genuine question, and I looked it up and its common for young people to have strokes, its scary man. I seriously hope you dont have to go through what I did.


I have 1,000+ posts and grow dense full buds and nobody respects my posts around here.
----Well.. of course man, your acting like a dick...well at least to me and since we have been posting for a bit im sure its safe to say you are actually a dick.. lmfao

Also, I would never push that as a reason why someone should respect my posts about my weight problem.
---No I pushed it as a reason to show that people who you talk shit to, could end up better than you and heck, we could be giving each other advice one time or another, but being an asshole isnt the way to start it.


Post count is meaningless. Post count to angry people ratio is what this thread boosted. You're right about not being obese, my mistake. However, 19% body fat is the cutoff from healthy to overfat for 20 to 29 year old males. I figured since as the age goes up, the acceptable fat % goes up, inversely, when the age goes down so does the acceptable fat % in each category. Considering the fact that 19 is too young for the charts, I'll subtract 3% to make 16% the cutoff for overfat, and you sir, are overfat.
----once again the charts are wrong I had just went to my doctor 2 weeks ago and he OBVIOUSLY could see I wasnt over weight I even told him based on the charts it appears im unhealthy, thats when he mentioned muscle mass being a factor thats tough to account for.

It's crazy how easy I slept last night without worrying if anyone at work thinks I'm fat.
----Lol thats cuz you drink and dont really care bro, people go to the gym because they care about there body and WORRY about the condition of their health...duuurrp

Wasn't an emotional wreck all night tossing and turning and sobbing.
----I actually went to sleep in less than 5 min knowing my bodys recovering and rebuilding my muscle, and pretty soon Ill be able to say my plants are growin go0d! with my room smoked out lmfao xD

Certainly you attempted to call me out, but considering how I've addressed and flipped every point you made, I'd say that backfired.
---True but now im at home this time where I can take the time to address everything YOUR saying and tell you this.
Everything you are saying would be valid IF you werent wrong lmfao, you think im fat, im not, it doesnt even seem you are factoring WHAT I asked him first, You are not factoring in that im a really nice guy with a genuine concern about my life, You are just a negative person especially with that astronaut story, you just gotta do the small things to get you there, and drinking until you can look 8 months pregnant on command isnt taking you closer to your goal. and the cool part is, its still not too late for you man! if you can still get ur ass on that plane than I challenge you to take the necessary baby steps to get your ass on that space shuttle my friend!

Thank you roll it up.
 

StonedPony

Well-Known Member
I asked if his left hand gets numb/forearm gets numb randomly like mine.. and he said something TOTALLY off topic, dont put words in my mouth asshole. actually read the dam post before you run off your mouth. I dont demand respect.Im just nice and people are nice back, for assholes I dont really care, but when someone verbally attacks me like that when Im asking for HELP about me either having carpel tunnel or an early sign of a stroke.. thats just fucked.. you could tell he doesnt burn. haha
LOL silly boy
 
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