RainbowBrite86
Well-Known Member
Omg. So true. I had a date a few months back with a guy, really informal. I invited him to my gf's birthday dinner at a restaurant and there were probably about 30 of our friends. Nothing happened, no holding hands, no intimacy or anything like that. He dropped me back off at home, said goodnight. The next morning I woke up to 8 city police knocking on my front door at 8:30am. He called the cops to do a "welfare check" on me, because he blew up my phone with text messages that morning, and I didn't respond. I was sleeping. NUT BAG. I told him to take a hike and he harrassed my phone for a week straight up into the wee hours of the morning. He appeared so normal at first, threw me off guard.
Inspired by this ^ story, i'd like to hear more. Here's mine:
I met this guy, we'll call him Darryl, through a friend of a friend. Just one of those happened to meet type of things, not like a set-up or blind date type deals. Anyway, this guy was in a wheelchair, but that part didn't really bother me. It did, however, make it awkward to turn him down. Idk why. Just more uncomfortable than usual lol. Anyway, he'd asked me out, and I told him I wasn't available but it was really sweet, thanks anyway, etc. etc. He seems OK with it. THE NEXT DAY - he asks again! Doubles the awkwardness because...I just told him I wasn't single. He starts crying and asks me if I can just sit and hear him out, because he "has something important to discuss with me." I have no idea what it's about, but I let him talk. He starts sharing his "testimonial" with me - you know...the "how I came to God" story. And it's all about how he didn't care about God until he was paralyzed, idk, it was a long story though lol. Again, I tell him that's an awesome story, and i'm so glad he found God, but i'm not available, but I wish him the best. THAT NIGHT he shows up where he knows i'm eating with some friends (one of them the one who had introduced us). And he proceeds to tell me that he has a three bedroom place, and that I need to move in with him, because why else would he have a three bedroom just for himself, if he weren't "destined" to meet me and marry me. (I have kids). I'm shaking my head no, but before I get any words out this time, he shouts "LET JESUS GIVE YOU TO ME!!" LoL. Ooookkkk. That was our last conversation lol. Weirdo.
Alright girls. I wanna hear your stories.