True, some ppl might be genetically dispositioned to be more tough than others and some more weak etc... but just cuz a girl has more male traits doesnt mean she has to act on it and be a lesbian. No matter how we are born, it is our choice on how we act on those things and deal with them. Think about it like this. Some ppl are born with anger problems. That doesnt mean they have to go around fucking shit up and punching ppls faces in, they dont have to act on the anger. Its their choice if they decide to let the anger control them and influence their actions.
Sometimes I wonder if the people who think it's a choice to be gay is actually gay themselves. Like dude keeps saying, it's a choice and you don't have to act on it, well maybe he had an urge that he just never acted upon, thus making him think that he is not gay, lol. But seriously though, over the years I have seen enough evidence to know that 99% of the time, gay people are gay because they were born gay. Like someone else mentioned already, why choose a life style that will only bring difficulty upon yourself. Sure, some people like to rock the boat, make waves, etc. etc. but as many gay people as their are I can't see that being the case. Why would someone risk having their parents, grandparents, and their whole family basically disown them. Some people are tolerant to homosexuality and they wouldn't disown their own family member, but what about the ones who are not tolerant. People have killed themselves because they couldn't handle how they were treated because they were gay.
I had a debate with one of my friends years ago about this topic. His dad believed people chose to be gay, so my friend felt the same way. I tried arguing that whole, "Why would they choose a harder life" bit, but they just said cause they wanted to be different. So, I broke it all the way down to them, and they didn't like what I said because it proved my point better than anything I had said previously as well as better than all of their points.
I gave them a challenge. The payout would have been two months of my pay going straight to them if they could complete the task. Sounded pretty good to me, if in fact you could choose to be gay then it wouldn't matter. I told them, if you can choose to be gay, then prove it to me by being gay for just one month. All they had to do was find another guy who was gay, have sex with him, suck his c@ck, take it in the @ss and actually like it. Also, it's not just about sex, it's about love. They had to actually have feelings of love, as well as sexual attraction to a man. They both said no. When I asked them why, they both proved my point, they both said, at almost the same exact time, "Because I'm not gay".
So if you can choose to be gay, then choose to be gay for a little while, fall in love with someone from the same sex, have sex with them and like it and then turn back straight. By doing that you will prove to everyone that you can choose to be gay and be real about it. I'm not talking about two drunk college girls making out at a party, but full on gay.
I worked with these identical twins years ago, Matt and Chris, they were both super gay, flamers at that. They would both dress in skirts outside of work, wear makeup, the whole nine yards. Their dad never molested them, no one for that matter, ever molested them. They were just born that way.