Howdy yall.....listen...sorry to cut in here...I didnt even go back and read the current event on jibber jabber but I have a situation on my hands. I had a really fucked up day today. Let me fill you in...I need some input on this....I know many of you are attending college...or have attended college..etc....my little lady is telling me what I need right now is a road trip to let my blood pressure settle down. So today I get a call from the university where my son is attending....it was his advisor.....now when we enrolled him, I had him sign the FERPA...which allows us access to his doings....after all I'm paying for it...I want to know what this guy is doing. Well mid terms just came out.....his advisor calls me and tells me there is a problem.....he is failing every single course....he did just fine his first semester....further more she tells me that he will have to withdraw because he is just so far behind...he just cannot recover......needless to say I came FUCKEN UNGLUED.....I have been so freaken pissed off today....its been horrible. So I text my son and tell him we need to talk....I inform him that I know the results of his mid terms.....I didnt hear back from him till just a bit ago....telling me that he cant come home till he knows that I have cooled down......thats because he knows I want to shove my size 12s so far up his posterior that he might have to have them surgically removed....I am super angry...I feel betrayed, angry....hurt...I dont know what all I feel....but for the last two months this guy has gotten out of bed , left the house and driven supposedly to school....we are thirty miles from campus....problem with that little story is the reason he is failing is because he has not been attending class.....I'm old school guys....i have done a relative good job making adjustments to accomadate this young generation but this is totally unacceptable in my book.....I am going to post this ....I will not respond to your feed back right away...I want to read yalls thoughts on this first.....sorry to unload this SHIT on you guys.....but perhaps perspective from others might help me see things differently... I dont want to do something I might regret later on...Thanks