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neosapien

neosapien

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Granny weed said:
Do you think its possible to have strong feelings for a person who you've never met in person, but had conversations with via another source.
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It is very possible Granny. Happens all the time.

Every time a hot girl posts a pic I get a "strong" feeling.
 
Hepheastus420

Hepheastus420

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Yeah, I'd say I have a couple of friends that I've met on here and on another site. I've only ever met one from this site, and he was as badass as he was here. I plan on meeting a few others for a couple of smoking sessions too :bigjoint:
 
RainbowBrite86

RainbowBrite86

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I think it's possible to develop strong feelings, but the feelings are going to change once you meet in person, for better or worse. But it will be totally different.
 
giggles26

giggles26

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Yea what everyone else said lol. It is possible but still has a good point. There are some fucked up people in this world lol.
 
kinetic

kinetic

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I know and met someone in real life from here. We did already party togtether years ago through mutual friends. Dudes a good guy in mybook.
As a friend I would say on here Doc. is one.
Now a cautionary tale. My exgirlfriend met her husband online. There were signs to cut it off but she didn't. Now he just got served divorce papers. He was caught in chris hansen type sting in Florida using her car and phone to solicit a 14 year old for sex. He was going to pick up who he believed was a 14 year old, instead he got a nice pair of handcuffs instead.
 
RainbowBrite86

RainbowBrite86

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Here's the thing, though, (and this is why I don't do online thingy's), both parties get to see each other through rose-tinted glasses while online. Anything that needs to be hidden is easily done, and so the entire internet time is just kind of...an elongated honeymoon period without the physical sex. As far as i'm concerned, I don't know someone until I've met them in person. And frankly, they don't know me, either.
 
Stillbuzzin

Stillbuzzin

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kinetic said:
I know and met someone in real life from here. We did already party togtether years ago through mutual friends. Dudes a good guy in mybook.
As a friend I would say on here Doc. is one.
Now a cautionary tale. My exgirlfriend met her husband online. There were signs to cut it off but she didn't. Now he just got served divorce papers. He was caught in chris hansen type sting in Florida using her car and phone to solicit a 14 year old for sex. He was going to pick up who he believed was a 14 year old, instead he got a nice pair of handcuffs instead.
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Shit like this happens for a reason. It comes out one way or another.
 
giggles26

giggles26

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RainbowBrite86 said:
Here's the thing, though, (and this is why I don't do online thingy's), both parties get to see each other through rose-tinted glasses while online. Anything that needs to be hidden is easily done, and so the entire internet time is just kind of...an elongated honeymoon period without the physical sex. As far as i'm concerned, I don't know someone until I've met them in person. And frankly, they don't know me, either.
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I consider most of you guys my friends but who knows in real life you could all just want to murder me lol

but no I totally agree rainbow you can't really know a person until you hang with them in person. I've talked with a lot of people online and then hung out with them and I was like uhm wtf no thanks ha.
 
kinetic

kinetic

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Stillbuzzin said:
Shit like this happens for a reason. It comes out one way or another.
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Yea, she had come to me with some issues. Just like here, I offered what I thought was solid advice. She didn't heed it. She ended up realizing that it was not romatic feelings my warning came from but from genuine freindship.
 
Flaming Pie

Flaming Pie

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Granny weed said:
Do you think its possible to have strong feelings for a person who you've never met in person, but had conversations with via another source.
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I believe you can have feelings. Like lust and longing and friendship. Only way to find out if it will work for real tho is to date them in person.
 
BarnBuster

BarnBuster

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giggles26 said:
I consider most of you guys my friends but who knows in real life you could all just want to murder me lol

but no I totally agree rainbow you can't really know a person until you hang with them in person. I've talked with a lot of people online and then hung out with them and I was like uhm wtf no thanks ha.
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I think you're worrying too much. What was your address again??

 
Flaming Pie

Flaming Pie

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I was talking with this one guy on the internet for a while.. he was (to me) a venting buddy. I would talk about how miserable I was (during the rough part of my marriage) and we would play games and watch movies online.

Well then he started telling me I should leave my husband to be with him... I was like... I don't know you... Why would I end my marriage over someone I don't know?
 
Flaming Pie

Flaming Pie

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Also had a few guild members ( who were pretty hot) ask me to come "visit" them. Again, I didn't really know them.. they could of killed me and chopped me up into little pieces...
 
see4

see4

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The important part of having an internet relationship, as with any relationship, is to be completely honest.

Looks are only part of the equation. What really matters is if you can get along with the person. If you share the same interests and look at life the same way, that's all that really matters. Obviously a physical attraction is important, but if you can get along with the person, they become more attractive. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
 
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