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Taviddude

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He's a French model... Ugh... Bonjour.........
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hereshegrows

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I feel no matter if you meet online or in real life, it takes a long time to know someone regardless. Everyone will work hard to show their best side in the beginning. I think there may even be somewhat of an advantage to getting to know someone inside a little before meeting them or seeing what they look like. I believe the chances of it working out are close to even either way. I know just as many stories about people having a bad experience after meeting someone in person as I do online. If you talk to a person long enough, you can see though people online because it's hard to hide who you are all the time. I totally think it's possible to meet and fall in love online and it be a wonderful thing...but I am a romantic at heart....and I do have crushes on almost all the guys and half the girls on here, so what do I know.
 

lahadaextranjera

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^^^^ I think you are right on many counts here. The real deal may be quite different from the online persona. I think you only really get to know someone when you live with them. I've known Indian couples in London that have been together for years before living as married.
 

Dr. Greenhorn

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^^^^ I think you are right on many counts here. The real deal may be quite different from the online persona. .
what you see here is what you get, lol. my RL persona might be a little bit more magnified though, lol. I tone it down here on the forum some :lol:

if ya don't believe me, ask the gang in the hawaii thread in the outdoor section, I've met most of them :D
 

lahadaextranjera

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what you see here is what you get, lol. my RL persona might be a little bit more magnified though, lol. I tone it down here on the forum some :lol:

if ya don't believe me, ask the gang in the hawaii thread in the outdoor section, I've met most of them :D
Ive just asked him- he says in RL I'm a lot calmer!! (knackered more like!)
 

hereshegrows

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I think I'm pretty true to who I am on here too. I think if someone is asking something from you very soon after meeting them online...I would suspect they were up to something. The only thing I really worry about on this site is ...the fuzz! I've met some people on here that I feel almost lost if they don't post for awhile. I would meet some of them in real life too and hope to one day.
 

kinetic

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I'm actually a bald fat guy with no friends and family. The pics I put up are of some random guy I found on the internet.
 

Bear Country

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Do you think its possible to have strong feelings for a person who you've never met in person, but had conversations with via another source.
Howdy Granny......Howdy everyone....I was on the road for a few days....back now. Granny....I do think its possible to develope feelings ETC....especially if you find that you have allot in common.....BUT....Myself being a grandpa....and a bit old school...I'd be careful with that one.....This is cyber world and there is all kinds of shit that goes on....some is legit....and a bunch of it is not!! My advice....proceed with caution. The last thing you need is to get hooked up with a case of BRAIN DAMAGE....ya know what I mean!!! At my age....I have learned to steer clear of that kind of crap.... Just giving you my thoughts from a reality perspective....if I recall correctly....you gave me some pretty good advice a while back!!! Bear
 

Bear Country

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I think I'm pretty true to who I am on here too. I think if someone is asking something from you very soon after meeting them online...I would suspect they were up to something. The only thing I really worry about on this site is ...the fuzz! I've met some people on here that I feel almost lost if they don't post for awhile. I would meet some of them in real life too and hope to one day.
"The Fuzz" I have thought about that ALLOT!! As for me ....as we start moving into spring and summer...I will get very busy as the days get longer and chances are that I will spend less and less time on RIU.....its just the way it is....winter slows everything down but once summer is here...I'm a busy bee......bzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
 

BarnBuster

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"The Fuzz" I have thought about that ALLOT!!...\
I was reading a post on here about some guys, all from around the same city, talking about their grows etc. and wanting to get together. Hadn't been members for any length of time and few posts and this is what I was thinking too.
 

hereshegrows

Well-Known Member
I was reading a post on here about some guys, all from around the same city, talking about their grows etc. and wanting to get together. Hadn't been members for any length of time and few posts and this is what I was thinking too.
It's no different than in real life though...you just have to use good judgement.
 

Bear Country

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I was reading a post on here about some guys, all from around the same city, talking about their grows etc. and wanting to get together. Hadn't been members for any length of time and few posts and this is what I was thinking too.
YEP.....if something does not sound reasonable or make sense, there is probably a pretty reason for it. There are times where I will log on and read what the chatter is about...if I feel ok with it..I will jump in but if not.....I just let it be...
 
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