You can't talk about culture with out talking about food and music.
Assimilation sounds like conquest.
This reminds me of army chow in Georgia. This may sound completely ignorant, but I'll say it anyway, most (probably all) of the civilian cooks were black. That was my exposure to soul food, especially breakfast. It softened the culture shock that I was going through at the time, because that aspect took such good care of me. I thought I would have missed my mother's cooking, but instead I transcended my culture just a bit, by enjoying a cultural experience. It left as strong an impression on me as the indoctrination.