yeah man....that's the compromise you should go for. Does this new house have a loft? It's very easy to hide a tent in the loft man. Or a garage maybe?
Even, a shed!!!!
My mrs would NEVER, NEVER, NEVER let me have a tent in our house, like in the spare room for example. I have to agree, it would not be cool or stealthy and I wouldn't even like to do that myself. But even the most humble of sheds can be turned into a great grow space with a little thought and planning.
Anyone can come round my house anytime and they will have no idea that I grow. As long as it stays like that, my mrs will not have a problem. She said to me a long time ago, 'i just don't want to know about it'. Generally it stays like that, but occasionally I slip up and make the house stink by doing some trimming, then I leave a bit of leaf on the floor, she goes mental, threatens to turn off my shed and I promise to be more 'on it!'.....said like a true stoner! LOL
I am also banned from using household utinsils for anything 'shed related'....using kitchen spoons to stir up nutes does not go down well in my house. Using a pyrex dish for oil was one of my biggest mistakes. I know now to just go to tescos and get a new dish or a spoon, whatever it takes!
But if you can't reach a compromise like that, then it's not really a compromise and maybe she just aint the one for you mate. But I hope it works out though man.