The first rule of grow club is don't show anybody your grow. Pictures with gps data scrubbed is about as far as most are willing to go.
Are you in a rec state? Medical state? If you've got a medical card if suggest looking for a club to join and start there. I'm not talking dispensary club but an actual club for patients.
Lots of great advice on here. If your looking for a mentor use utube. It's just not safe to get personal with a stranger. No disrespect to you and I understand the need. Pm me with questions, answering is all I can do.