I'm looking to get a hand gun for concealed carry in my purse. And for inside my house should I ever need it there. And in my vehicle. What do I need? Someone recommended a Ruger LCR. Good choice?
I've shot hand guns growing up. Up to 38. My dad was a gun lover.
I'm probably beating a dead horse here but revolvers are much more reliable than semi autos and are easier to operate. Some people have a hard time manipulating the slide to chamber a round as well as the slide stop/release. IMHO .380 and .22 are not ideal carry rounds. Sure, anything is better than nothing, but why carry something that is better than nothing, when you can carry something better.
Revolvers in .38spl are almost always 5rd. Especially in snub nose which is what you'd be after. Statistically a "gun fight" is 3 rds shot including both parties. If a revolver has a misfire you just pull the trigger and it advances to the next round. In an auto, you need to manually eject that round in order to get back into the fight.
A revovler can be shot through a pocket or purse and keep going. An auto you can probably get one shot off then it will jam if you try to shoot it this way. Also, lets say your assailant is so close you have to jam the barrel of the gun in their ribs etc... a revolver will go bang. Nearly all autos wont. There is a thing called a disconnector that if the slide is pushed out of battery slightly it wont fire. Almost all .38spl will handle and fire .38spl +P. This is a hotter round than the normal .38spl and you could consider it a mild .357. Another key point too is that you could get a .357 magnum snub nose and it will shoot all 3 rounds. ALL .357 mag revolvers will shoot .38's.
I could go on, but revolvers are a no brainer for reliability and ease of use. The ONLY downside if you consider it to be is that 99% of revolvers have no manual safety. That being said, like all firearms, keep your finger off the trigger until ready to shoot and the gun will NOT go bang on it's own. Also, the trigger pull of a revolver in double action mode will have a trigger pull of around 10# this means you could carry it unholstered in your purse or whatever and it will never even come close to firing unless you pull the trigger.
The two revolvers I suggest the most would be any Smith and Wesson J-frame. Ideally the airweight line. Or better yet the Smith and Wesson Bodyguard revolver. They come with a laser on them. Very handy. The other is a Ruger LCR. I like Smith and Wesson more. Both are high quality and have great warranties and customer service.
Like anything though, whatever you purchase, practice, practice, practice!!! You cannot practice enough.