Ton of things wrong all around. The lady is off and very defensive which mean she has some mental issues in rgards to her self worth and compensates through anger autority. The mother if the dad has legal visitation rights was responsible to infor the father or any meds or current medical needs that may be in effect or she is endagering the childs welfare. The dad should have used his attorney to request the medical file on his child and if he still has some legal parental power ie the court didn't grant sole guardianship to just the mother, he can contact the childs doctor. All of them screwed up but she is a ego bitch for sure and the dad seems a bit lost how to handle his concern but he has the responsibility to be concerned. I might agree he shouldnt have guessed and shared possible side affects with the child that young of age without knowing the exact medication at that time.Might be more to this story as it is edited alot and there is an order of protection that has been issued but he is being allowed visitation rights.