basically 2 400's (or 1x 1000) per heavy duty timer is how i'd do it
make sure every 10 amps or 12 gets it's own dedicated breaker, if that means running properly rated extension cords that could help
using as little amounts of extension cords to reduce risk, and be careful using power strips
wall outlets are great , dedicate wall outlets for each piece of equipment (don't use splitters/power strips)
also you could run a sub-panel, or like someone else said change up to 240v (depending on situation)
to allow everything to be properly run
it's good to have timers start a few minutes apart because the ballast uses more "Start " amperage when it first fires off.
to answer your questions in the best way i can, delay timers could be un-necessary , when you have digital programmable timers. Just set them to go off when you want, and figure stuff out manually
i guess the delay timers are fancy, for if you have a properly rated receptical for everything, the delay timers would stagger the On times to prevent overloading the circuit.