I appreciate the responses guys.
Last night one of our adult daughters dropped a bomb on us.
She is single and has given us two beautiful Grandsons - last night she informed us that she had given birth to a 3rd (2 months ago) & given him up for adoption that didn't work out (the prospective couple found out that they were pregnant).
Additionally, while in the hospital on baby issues they found her lungs riddled with tumors - they performed a biopsy today with results pending but my gut tells me they won't be good.
I told her on no terms would I bless my grandson being adopted by strangers - you never abandon family, ever !
I am too fucking old to tend to a 2 month old in addition to his young brothers should the worst happen.
We are at the end of our rope praying for a miracle.
Sorry for dumping this on my friends,
Damn !!