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Seamaiden

Seamaiden

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I'm sorry, but you people who are saying there are others, come on, man! How would that make you feel? You're not interested in the others, you're interested in "that one".

Chuck, if you know where and how you fucked up, then go fix it! NOW!
 
NewGrowth

NewGrowth

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Seamaiden said:
I'm sorry, but you people who are saying there are others, come on, man! How would that make you feel? You're not interested in the others, you're interested in "that one".

Chuck, if you know where and how you fucked up, then go fix it! NOW!
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Sometimes you can't fix it sea, it sucks. I think you love those people forever but you have to allow yourself to move on. It just takes time really . . .Lotsa love for ya chuck . . .:peace:
 
Seamaiden

Seamaiden

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Sometimes you can't, you are absolutely right about that, NG. But! There comes a time when a person has to ask themselves what love is worth. And to me it's worth a lot. And that means that if the other is the "love of your life", and you know you fucked up, do whatever you can to make it right. Even if it doesn't work out in the end, don't go to your grave with that kind of regret. Make the effort, it's monumental, I know.
 
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longbaugh

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http://www.cnvc.org the center for nonviolent communication. This helped me a whole bunch ... learning to communicate with honesty. Learning to understand my needs and hearing someone else's.

Think about how you feel right now and what you need. Now imagine if someone gave it to you. Imagine if you could give that to someone else.

It may be too late to build that with this woman. Maybe it's not. Either way, getting in touch with your needs (and her's) will definitely put you on the road to what you're looking for.

Sorry, but I'm too much of a hippie...peace...love....had to put in my 2 cents
:peace: :joint: :hug:
 
NewGrowth

NewGrowth

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Seamaiden said:
Sometimes you can't, you are absolutely right about that, NG. But! There comes a time when a person has to ask themselves what love is worth. And to me it's worth a lot. And that means that if the other is the "love of your life", and you know you fucked up, do whatever you can to make it right. Even if it doesn't work out in the end, don't go to your grave with that kind of regret. Make the effort, it's monumental, I know.
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I agree . . . I gave everything for the "love of my life" and it still did not work:cry:
The effort is monumental but it is well worth it even if it does not work out the way you think it should.
 
NewGrowth

NewGrowth

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tipsgnob said:
new girlfriends are fun for like...2 weeks...:joint:
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Yep I had one break up with me right at 2 weeks, I was so happy because I wanted to break it off with her! :lol: She was a good fuck buddy then she got crazy . . .:spew: Wow, bringing back some memories tips! The things we do for some :hump::hump:
 
Seamaiden

Seamaiden

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longbaugh said:
http://www.cnvc.org the center for nonviolent communication. This helped me a whole bunch ... learning to communicate with honesty. Learning to understand my needs and hearing someone else's.

Think about how you feel right now and what you need. Now imagine if someone gave it to you. Imagine if you could give that to someone else.

It may be too late to build that with this woman. Maybe it's not. Either way, getting in touch with your needs (and her's) will definitely put you on the road to what you're looking for.

Sorry, but I'm too much of a hippie...peace...love....had to put in my 2 cents
:peace: :joint: :hug:
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Good stuff.
 
cannibicam

cannibicam

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I think the saddest thing about this is chuckbane felt the need to post about it, like the faceless people in these forums are his real friends and they could actually help him cope with the situation. One would think that at a time like this you wouldn't be on a computer but with those that are very close to you, people who could actually touch you and comfort you in a time like this. I just hope he has real friends that he can talk to. If this is a real network for him than he has bigger problems than just losing a "girlfriend".
maybe he is just talking about a plant he harvested?
 
Stoney McFried

Stoney McFried

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That's a bit insensitive.Sometimes its easier to talk to folks you barely know, to get perspective from someone who's not involved.It's not sad.And the crack about the plant wasn't particularly funny.
cannibicam said:
I think the saddest thing about this is chuckbane felt the need to post about it, like the faceless people in these forums are his real friends and they could actually help him cope with the situation. One would think that at a time like this you wouldn't be on a computer but with those that are very close to you, people who could actually touch you and comfort you in a time like this. I just hope he has real friends that he can talk to. If this is a real network for him than he has bigger problems than just losing a "girlfriend".
maybe he is just talking about a plant he harvested?
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chuckbane

chuckbane

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cannibicam said:
I think the saddest thing about this is chuckbane felt the need to post about it, like the faceless people in these forums are his real friends and they could actually help him cope with the situation. One would think that at a time like this you wouldn't be on a computer but with those that are very close to you, people who could actually touch you and comfort you in a time like this. I just hope he has real friends that he can talk to. If this is a real network for him than he has bigger problems than just losing a "girlfriend".
maybe he is just talking about a plant he harvested?
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i think the saddest thing about THIS post is that you actually took time out of your day to write it.

For someone who has been on the run his whole life no, I don't have anyone to talk to.

Take some advice from the wise. Shut the fuck up. :joint::hump::joint:
 
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