Girlfriend Is Too Sensitive Or Am I An Ass?
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carl.burnette
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You want the correct answer or the right answer?
The correct answer is YOUR AN ASS! BUt the right answer is she's too sensative. Now, you want to be correct or right?
The right answer will make this the coldest summer on record at your house
Go with the correct one. That's what I do. I may not be the man of my house, but do I ever get snuggled!
The correct answer is YOUR AN ASS! BUt the right answer is she's too sensative. Now, you want to be correct or right?
The right answer will make this the coldest summer on record at your house
Go with the correct one. That's what I do. I may not be the man of my house, but do I ever get snuggled!
incognito5320
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robert 14617
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not trying to start anything but here is my honest opinion i would bet you are 22 and she is 16... now and the mother just wants to protect her daughter and stop her from running away by saying she can't see you at all
NoobgrowerLbc
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Lol im actually 25 and shes 22
robert 14617
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so my guess would be she has down syndrome
Tenner
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Why is everyone so mean on this section?
Propably because your all high and anonymous on the internet
@NoobgrowerLbc your not an ass, thats well established. People on here may tell you to drop her and walk away but they don`t care and they aren`t in your place. There is such a thing called putting effort into your love. The longer your relationship, the more effort has to go in. Your not a bad dude for wanting to have sex with your 2 year long girlfriend. A ban can`t just be placed like that. You guys need to clear this up with the parents.
I can understand your girl, shes not a bad person she is kind hearted and trying her best to get on with her mom fuelled by the guilt of hiding this affair for 2 years. It shows she cares about what her mother thinks. Its shitty for you but its done on good intentions...
I can also understand the mother, that is done on good intentions too. Very old fashioned and nosey mind you, but she at least thinks she has good intent.
This is more to do with why you two are low on confidence. As in you either prove to the mother that your "worthy" of her girl or the girl and you fall out with the mother for a while until she makes peace with it. It can only work those 2 ways by the looks of it. Or you guys can hide it
IMO give her her own way for a little bit speaking a week or two no sex or however long you want to wait. Let it creep up on her that its a little awkward then make your move saying the right things. It should work bro it should work If she gets confused tell her you love her and that her mom will not find out. Simple as that
Doing stuff on the sneaky is kinda fun anyways
Now you have that sweet challenge to get into those panties again
FUCK YEAH! Mines on jury duty for 2 weeks so I`m pretty lonely
Propably because your all high and anonymous on the internet
@NoobgrowerLbc your not an ass, thats well established. People on here may tell you to drop her and walk away but they don`t care and they aren`t in your place. There is such a thing called putting effort into your love. The longer your relationship, the more effort has to go in. Your not a bad dude for wanting to have sex with your 2 year long girlfriend. A ban can`t just be placed like that. You guys need to clear this up with the parents.
I can understand your girl, shes not a bad person she is kind hearted and trying her best to get on with her mom fuelled by the guilt of hiding this affair for 2 years. It shows she cares about what her mother thinks. Its shitty for you but its done on good intentions...
I can also understand the mother, that is done on good intentions too. Very old fashioned and nosey mind you, but she at least thinks she has good intent.
This is more to do with why you two are low on confidence. As in you either prove to the mother that your "worthy" of her girl or the girl and you fall out with the mother for a while until she makes peace with it. It can only work those 2 ways by the looks of it. Or you guys can hide it
IMO give her her own way for a little bit speaking a week or two no sex or however long you want to wait. Let it creep up on her that its a little awkward then make your move saying the right things. It should work bro it should work
If she gets confused tell her you love her and that her mom will not find out. Simple as that Doing stuff on the sneaky is kinda fun anyways
Now you have that sweet challenge to get into those panties again
FUCK YEAH! Mines on jury duty for 2 weeks so I`m pretty lonely
mantiszn
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agree with tenner...
just be thankful her mother didn't move in with you... sponge off her daughter for 4 months wrecking her finances plunging her into about 10k's worth of debt then get intentionally deported leaving her daughter in financial ruins.. leaving you to foot all the bills and help her out forcing you into debt as well... almost ruining your relationship to the point where you had to actually move out of your own house for 2 months (whilst still paying the mortgage and all the bills) because you could not stand the sight of her mothers miserable face or foul odour stench of 40 fags a day after you have told her not to smoke in your house...
i always thought the evil mother in law was something that they made up in movies.... boy was i wrong...
just be thankful her mother didn't move in with you... sponge off her daughter for 4 months wrecking her finances plunging her into about 10k's worth of debt then get intentionally deported leaving her daughter in financial ruins.. leaving you to foot all the bills and help her out forcing you into debt as well... almost ruining your relationship to the point where you had to actually move out of your own house for 2 months (whilst still paying the mortgage and all the bills) because you could not stand the sight of her mothers miserable face or foul odour stench of 40 fags a day after you have told her not to smoke in your house...
i always thought the evil mother in law was something that they made up in movies.... boy was i wrong...
napa23
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That's what I'm saying. Relationships are delicate. It's like chess, think about it before you run off making a stupid move. It's about give and take. My parents know my gf and I have sex, they just want me to be careful. We hide it completely from her parents. Now if she wants to stop having sex, that's on her. It's not really fair to you, and she shouldn't expect you to be happy with it...or stick around for that matter. I mean, I hope you would try to work it out for a 2 year relationship, but people have different priorities. It depends on what you're willing to deal with, but you're not an ass for saying you're not happy about it. And it sure as hell doesn't mean you'll cheat. I personally think cheating is bs, break up with her before you do that junk.Why is everyone so mean on this section?
Propably because your all high and anonymous on the internet
@NoobgrowerLbc your not an ass, thats well established. People on here may tell you to drop her and walk away but they don`t care and they aren`t in your place. There is such a thing called putting effort into your love. The longer your relationship, the more effort has to go in. Your not a bad dude for wanting to have sex with your 2 year long girlfriend. A ban can`t just be placed like that. You guys need to clear this up with the parents.
I can understand your girl, shes not a bad person she is kind hearted and trying her best to get on with her mom fuelled by the guilt of hiding this affair for 2 years. It shows she cares about what her mother thinks. Its shitty for you but its done on good intentions...
I can also understand the mother, that is done on good intentions too. Very old fashioned and nosey mind you, but she at least thinks she has good intent.
This is more to do with why you two are low on confidence. As in you either prove to the mother that your "worthy" of her girl or the girl and you fall out with the mother for a while until she makes peace with it. It can only work those 2 ways by the looks of it. Or you guys can hide it
IMO give her her own way for a little bit speaking a week or two no sex or however long you want to wait. Let it creep up on her that its a little awkward then make your move saying the right things. It should work bro it should work
Doing stuff on the sneaky is kinda fun anyways
Now you have that sweet challenge to get into those panties again
FUCK YEAH! Mines on jury duty for 2 weeks so I`m pretty lonely
Edit-I will say this though. She seems a little unstable, crying over little stuff. I mean girls are girls but she's got to trust you and chill the fuck out. Get her high, panties will drop then lol.
medicalmaryjane
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i don't think it's a dick move. she's too old to be letting her mom tell her she can only kiss. that's just plain stupid. sorry. it would be one thing if it was all she wanted to do but her mom telling her what she can do is dumb. also, what' wrong with having safe sex at 22? i don't understand why people think sex is bad. is she religious or something?
i am female and i think that's weird shit. i think she's making excuses.
i am female and i think that's weird shit. i think she's making excuses.
medicalmaryjane
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one more question: you haven't had sex in 2 years?
Kodank Moment
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Ok.
1. She tried banging her head into the wall while you were arguing? Um Red Flag.
2. She is constantly worried about you cheating and leaving? Red...flag.
3. She is 22 and let's her mother control her life? Big Red Truck!!
4. You've been together 2 years and have had to lie to people about it including her parents? Red flag son.
5. You are still with her? Red ass flag my friend.
If you even remotely think your gonna have decent, barely functional, honest relationship...then your very dumb.
Also if you stay...wow. You are no longer a man at that point. Take her ending it as a quick ass way out.
You both sound pretty fucked up in the head.
1. She tried banging her head into the wall while you were arguing? Um Red Flag.
2. She is constantly worried about you cheating and leaving? Red...flag.
3. She is 22 and let's her mother control her life? Big Red Truck!!
4. You've been together 2 years and have had to lie to people about it including her parents? Red flag son.
5. You are still with her? Red ass flag my friend.
If you even remotely think your gonna have decent, barely functional, honest relationship...then your very dumb.
Also if you stay...wow. You are no longer a man at that point. Take her ending it as a quick ass way out.
You both sound pretty fucked up in the head.
NoobgrowerLbc
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We had sex a few months after entering the relationship however i gotten blow jobs and make out sessions 3 weeks before it became officail. Reason why is becuase i was undecided if i really wanna deal with relationships untill she asked to make it official.
Tenner
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1)Are you in a relationship now?
2)Whats the longest relationship you were in and how did it end?
I`m just curious!
Kodank Moment
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No I'm not. 3 years and I'm 22. And it ended with me being polite and her being polite and us dividing our bills and me moving back into my dad's.
I ended the 3 year about 3 weeks ago.
I ended the 3 year about 3 weeks ago.
djruiner
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guys like you give real men a bad name....sure the age is 12 and not 22? if you and her are not 12 then hand over your man card...pronto.
Tenner
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You sound decent but woah at how into manlihood you guys are.
I`d say, the toke n talk is a pretty manly place, kinda like prison lol
"my dealer did this" 3 of the next replies you should fucking nut him or shoot him!!
"my gf is doing this" - dump the bitch!!
"i think this girl likes me" - fuck the bitch!!
Seriously thats what I see around here
Isn`t weed supposed to be a little pace love n happines? Like mellow 
Kodank Moment
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My age has nothing to do with my cognitive ability and understanding of the basics of human psychology. Also my age leads no credence to my experience in the relationship field. I do know a thing or two though, 22 or not. I am however, not wrong when I say she is putting up some very blindingly red flags.
You two will never be married or happy in the right ways. It's just a fact. So why waste your time...? Your 25..time to date a woman your age and not a little girl.
You two will never be married or happy in the right ways. It's just a fact. So why waste your time...? Your 25..time to date a woman your age and not a little girl.
Kodank Moment
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Oh you mean Mickey Mouse hand? After I helped her a bit she quit talking to me like a cunt would. Oh well. Moving on. Someone dumb enough to shoot themselves is...not worth it to say the least.