Got caught!! Just got out =(

NoDrama

Well-Known Member
Don't feel bad, My Ex wife called the cops on me and said i was beating her.we had an argument because I would not buy her a plane ticket to go visit friends on the other side of the country ($1200 ticket) but there was no hitting at all. Of course I was out of town the day she said it happened and I could prove it, but when the Sheriff showed up and told me I had to leave i saw an opportunity to get my car fixed. You see I had my Caddillac sitting out behind the house but I had left the headlights on and drained the battery, well my brother had borrowed my jumper cables so i didn't have them. so i asked the deputy If he would give me a jump so I could leave the house and go to a friends. He gave me the jump and I went to my buddies house. We went to court for a domestic violence thing and I showed my proof. Wife got fined for making a false statement. After that I could never trust again her so we got separated and eventually divorced. I get the kids every weekend and every other holiday and 2 months each summer, she got remarried to some guy she met on the internet. Life is much better now.
 

EGDayz

Member
im the same way , but my wife and kids dont know about my grow they arent allowed inmy office (grow room)
me and the wife give each other an allowance so i dont ask her for $ and she dont ask me for $ after bill and savings we have are left over money
its' like 100 for me and 165 for her every 2weeks
that's actuly a good idea to keep your women happy
 
(Susc'd)
Sorry things went down that way for you Bosson26. GL with the charges man. Hope she realizes that she put herself in the spotlight too considering there's a child involved. But, I’ve got to agree with GWN, shylas, smppro, and so many others here. It just comes down to choosing the right mate, male or female, right from the very beginning. ALL of us gal’s out here are not that way, and the trust must be mutual. Shaman and I have been married for 20 years. Newlyweds, LOL. He’s not only my husband but is my best friend as well. And, he is the ONLY one who knows anything about my grow or ever will if I have anything to say about it. He was the one who supported my seeking alternative medical treatment and getting my permit when all the chemical garbage they were prescribing only made me sicker and he found RIU for me. To me, that’s a true friend. Shaman and I were OTR team drivers for 12 years, so like shylas, my “Friends” are male also. Unfortunately all the females I know are merely acquaintances, and I wouldn’t trust any of them with a grocery list.
 
im the same way , but my wife and kids dont know about my grow they arent allowed inmy office (grow room)
me and the wife give each other an allowance so i dont ask her for $ and she dont ask me for $ after bill and savings we have are left over money
its' like 100 for me and 165 for her every 2weeks
You're living in a fool's paradise buddy.... She knows.
You just don't realize she's *letting* you get away with it lol.
 

JimmyPot

Well-Known Member
Do many weman in the world to be knocking up mouthy trash.I know we have nothing in common in that situation.Not trying to sound like a broken record but Im betting you listen to rap.
 

That 5hit

Well-Known Member
she said:
I'm a wife who grows and I trust my husband. We both smoke and grow together. Now being a woman I know how emotionally charged things can get especially if your preggers. If you have a volatile relationship to begin with then yeah keep the secret but if you have a good relationship with spouse/ baby's momma no need to keep secrets. Hows she gunna feel if she does find out? She'll feel untrusted and betrayed and the chances of her turning you in are even greater.
Also lets be friendly, "do your unborn child a favor and get an education" Calling someone ghetto trash, or whatver, not so nice.Thats a bit harsh. To each his own, thats what makes the world go round. :)

Good luck with that domestic thing.
then he said:
I agree. I wouldn't keep it from my wife. She lives in the same house as it is happening in. So to keep that from her, she would feel betrayed. Besides who do you think allowed me to spend my money to buy the stuff for growing. LOL. Yes I'm one of those, she controls the money in this house. But she never told me no.
then i said
im the same way , but my wife and kids dont know about my grow they arent allowed inmy office (grow room)
me and the wife give each other an allowance so i dont ask her for $ and she dont ask me for $ after bill and savings we have are left over money
its' like 100 for me and 165 for her every 2weeks
then you said
You're living in a fool's paradise buddy.... She knows.
You just don't realize she's *letting* you get away with it lol.
then i said


i laughed so fucken hard when i read this - its hard to type -
look guy if you find it hard to think that my old lady would rather shoot herself in the foot before she come into my Office your kidding yourself, you have to getsome respect , manup, run your house,
maybe there's some type of ethnic diff. here , but im black (not that it should mater), and i was brought up to never, under any reason, to go into my fathers office (that he called his workspace) or he was going to beat our (me and my sisters) ass, and my father is the type of dude we as adults still fear, but we still love him- and yes i have asked him why as kids we couldnt go in there , the short answer was thats where he kept his guns and he didnt want us to get to them- but my point of the story was this is a way i grow up and my wife even knows about my fathers rooms so and my wife knows about my rooms she know i keep my guns locked up in there she already knows that i smoke and i am only allow to smoke in that room i have everything in there my mini bar, minifridge, my recliner a 27in flat and my computer and she doesnt even like the smell of weed so she calls me on my cell whenever she needs me for anything - that also could be the diff. between us my wife has never, ever, smoked, ever, and rarely drinks
i hear people on here saying if you love her and trust her i would tell here -failed- no, thoses are the reason 's i dont- trust me im in no fear of her ever getting mad about my grow and going to tell the cops, to me there's noreason she should know- besides i dont be going all in the kitchen fucking up her shit (lol)
myspace is myspace the wife and kids are not allowed in or nere there - only i have a key to it - and for anyone who thinks that this is not possible , that is the real shit thats funny -- rotfl -- hell naw she dont know whats going on in my room she's never been in there.
 

That 5hit

Well-Known Member
be cool jimmy dont group us all in together
i listen to rap and my oldlady listin to its
and i dont worry about the shit this guy worry about- this guy beats his oldlady thats his problem, he knocked her up and she thought that was going to be a way to keep him , that never works, if i didnt marry you before the child what make her think im going to marry you now, she's frustarted because she has now realizes that she gat popped off by a turd, and the truth hurts, thats why she dont care if he gets locked up, because she know he prolly going to be nothing , but she found out to late bongsmiliebongsmilie just my $0.02
 

greengrowthexpert

Active Member
id kill that stupid bitch
O.O

Well, You really shouldn't of went and knocked up a girl. Your sounding like ghetto trash, That's why a cop is never going to believe you dude. Trust me. Shave, Go get some dockers, Chaps, Whatever your into, Nice black dress shoes and go to school or something man you still have time make something of yourself until your kids 18 and your home-free, And you can still grow buds dude. Your an adult now, You can plant them outside, Or build your own secret little garden. Say you want your own room, Get your own lock, And she can't come barging in there invading your privacy if you put under contract that room is yours. And when she trys coming in there, You can easily call the cops on her. Dude. I'm telling you. Its way better growing in a nice big grow room when you get older instead of growing in a shoebox under your bed.. Get a job, Get a fucking education, And live your fucking life until you can retire like the rest of us and don't seem like trash anymore. "babymama" so uncalled for I wish this was never posted.
 

thesmokering

Well-Known Member
interesting to hear others stories, its walkin a fine line that we all manage to keep the peace. do you think any wives out there gotta hide it from their husbands? somehow i dont think so...
 

Bosson26

Active Member
LOL WHAT UP GUYS!! i didnt read pass 3 page but i LOL'd. well we been together for 2 years. she did it to throw some fear in me to get me to do what she wants and i just dont think she deserve my attention. so that's how things got ugly. i really miss growing i learn so much off here im almost addicted to it but im playin smart. gotta let time fly by before i get back in the game and into another home.
 

Hidden Agenda

Well-Known Member
Originally Posted by Hidden Agenda
For your unborn child's sake, please get an education and stop being such ghetto-trash.



Quote:
Originally Posted by tusseltussel
:clap::clap::clap:

Quote:
Originally Posted by Azgrow
i'll put a third on that.........az

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Originally Posted by That 5hit
and i even gat caught cheating
and yes we have heated dis agreements
but she never called or threatened to call the law on me (maybe because i dont beat wemon)
she dont know i grow
so the more i grow
the more i blow
get you life in order


I'm with these guys. :mrgreen:

Too bad i got a 2 week vacation from RIU for that statement.
 

anberlinaddict

Well-Known Member
For your unborn child's sake, please get an education and stop being such ghetto-trash.
Agreed. You sound like a moronic piece of ghetto'fied trash man. Seriously...you JUST get out of jail for beating your girl, and the only thing you can think of doing is post on RIU ? Wow.... the nerve of some people.

A. If you know you're girl is like that.. why the FUCK would you grow

B. Don't hit women. Because if I personally saw you push or hit a girl, I would mop the floor with you son.
 

Bosson26

Active Member
Agreed. You sound like a moronic piece of ghetto'fied trash man. Seriously...you JUST get out of jail for beating your girl, and the only thing you can think of doing is post on RIU ? Wow.... the nerve of some people.

A. If you know you're girl is like that.. why the FUCK would you grow

B. Don't hit women. Because if I personally saw you push or hit a girl, I would mop the floor with you son.
wow some of you guys misunderstood. i never hit my ex. i was the one getting bitch smack contantly all i did was push her arms off me. even on the police report it says push and she said it. but by law laying a finger i could go to jail just for that. i dont think im a bad person cuz i couldve press charge and she would be in jail too. the charges and case was dropped. im free to go.
 
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