Growing with your girl?

sorry i dont frequent gay bars
maybe we could think of somewhere else

spandy said:

I just smoked so I really don't even care if you called me gay right now, lol. It's all good.

Just think if this was a bar...we would already of been outside fighting! LOL Fuck alcohol and fuck narks. Peace out.

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Wow dude, I was totally not even attacking you man. I just meant that alcohol leads to violence, not that I was going to beat you down for what was said.

Seriously, did I say something that offended you or something? Because every time I turn left, you go right and I'm not understanding why.

i think in theory growing with a gf could be a good thing...while you're with her...

once/if its over theres a chance she will screw you over (or visca versa to the ladies considering growing with their man).


in theory i'd trust a woman over just a friend when it comes to growing but that doesnt mean i think its a good idea to involve someone else...partners make things easier but there has to be an unbelievable amount of trust involved.

i advise against working with ANYONE when it comes to growing. its best to do it all on your own and rely solely on yourself...

note: this pretains to illegal grows...or commercial (or commercially minded) grows...

if you both are in a medical mj state, have cards, and only intend to grow for yourselves then i think its more of an acceptable risk...but if its not legal where you are or if the grow is for profit then don't do it.

think about how people get when they break up...it can get ugly...

with "friends" its even worse as you'd have to worry about them skimming/sneaking buds instead of splitting it properly...or one day all your plants come up missing after a suspicious "break in" etc.

well when u said if this was a bar we would be out fighting
when i was on this thread for discussion seem to be fighting words but i may just be a little high strung lately seems to be in the air

spandy said:

Wow dude, I was totally not even attacking you man. I just meant that alcohol leads to violence, not that I was going to beat you down for what was said.

Seriously, did I say something that offended you or something? Because every time I turn left, you go right and I'm not understanding why.

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rene112388 said:

Well if this was a bar there would be no fight I'd pull my sack out and we could all smoke till the anger was gone

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EXACTLY, and thats all I was trying to say with that comment, was that alcohol leads to violence in many cases.

There is no anger because we aren't at a bar.

I'm happy, I don't know why anyone else is upset, lol.

fabfun said:

well when u said if this was a bar we would be out fighting
when i was on this thread for discussion seem to be fighting words but i may just be a little high strung lately seems to be in the air

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Its cool bro. again, my bar comment wasn't meant to insinuate that I would of wanted to fight you, just that alcohol would of probably helped us both get there was all as people aren't themselves when they drink. Did you see the "LOL" at the end of that comment?

Why do either of us care? LOL (see the LOL this time, that means I'm happy and not attacking anyone, LOL)

spandy lets just blame rene its her fault i came here lol
see what u got me into girl now u got me outside the bar fight
hey them guys might have been right about how women are
get u into trouble lmao
sorry rene couldnt resist
spandy dont leave stay i will behave now

spandy said:

EXACTLY, and thats all I was trying to say with that comment, was that alcohol leads to violence in many cases.

There is no anger because we aren't at a bar.

I'm happy, I don't know why anyone else is upset, lol.

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btw im on alcohol lol

spandy said:

Its cool bro. again, my bar comment wasn't meant to insinuate that I would of wanted to fight you, just that alcohol would of probably helped us both get there was all as people aren't themselves when they drink. Did you see the "LOL" at the end of that comment?

Why do either of us care? LOL (see the LOL this time, that means I'm happy and not attacking anyone, LOL)

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fabfun said:

spandy lets just blame rene its her fault i came here lol
see what u got me into girl now u got me outside the bar fight
hey them guys might have been right about how women are
get u into trouble lmao
sorry rene couldnt resist
spandy dont leave stay i will behave now

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Hey now your the one who asked for the trouble you knew when we started talking I'm good at that but not when it comes to illegal activities and also just was curious your opinion since the deal with your ex

which ex got so many cant trust them got rid of all of them
grows before hoes

rene112388 said:

Hey now your the one who asked for the trouble you knew when we started talking I'm good at that but not when it comes to illegal activities and also just was curious your opinion since the deal with your ex

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There's only 2 females allowed in my grow-op, my plants and my mom. My mom trims with me so she's trustable. I was with my girl for 5 years and never let her know about it. Loose lips sink ships. If you tell no one no one can tell on you

fabfun said:

which ex got so many cant trust them got rid of all of them
grows before hoes

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Well in that case pick one lol and seems you need a different kind of woman

puffntuff said:

There's only 2 females allowed in my grow-op, my plants and my mom. My mom trims with me so she's trustable. I was with my girl for 5 years and never let her know about it. Loose lips sink ships. If you tell no one no one can tell on you

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Well now if you live with the gf or bf it is hard to hide or in my case I have to thank my ex for being a failure at growing that is why I started I stand by my original idea it matters about the situation and person

fabfun said:

btw im on alcohol lol

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That explains it. I was right then huh, lol.

We lived together but I didn't grow at my casa. We broke up she moved out my grow moved in. I can't complain it was a nice switch.

yep want to fight
lets step outside
just kidding buddy

spandy said:

That explains it. I was right then huh, lol.

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puffntuff said:

We lived together but I didn't grow at my casa. We broke up she moved out my grow moved in. I can't complain it was a nice switch.

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Yeah that's good but my ex sprung the grow on me lol so he move out and I kept growing also a sweet deal lol

rene112388 said:

First off as a woman your a fucking dick for this post but whatever that's your view as far as weather to tell her don't do it I got into growing with the ex because he couldn't do it when we split he tried to pin a grow charge on me by taking his papers and my caregiver form and ripping them up I got lucky and he came clean about the legality of it we made an arrangement and he has fucked me over so I went and got my own papers as he even tried taking all the grow equipment that I bought as much as I'd love to grow with my partner I don't trust it after that

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How is he a dick for making this post? It's a very interesting topic that a lot of guys have had to deal with and its good to warn and learn from other guys
mistakes. Women and business has never mixed and never will. And in case you havent noticed renee, a majority of growers are male, so of you dont like it, keep it to yourself and dont judge others for what they post. The girl
he described is your common bitch, freeloading and sucking cox, those type are never trustworthy, they're just there for the meantime until some "fresh puss" comes along. In my situation they were sisters.
Maryjane is the best and only female worth trusting in making you happy and she never talks back.

um excuse me u are talking to a rene who is a female member here so please tone down the disrespectful comments towards woman u can have a discussion why out that

1stimegrower said:

How is he a dick for making this post? It's a very interesting topic that a lot of guys have had to deal with and its good to warn and learn from other guys
mistakes. Women and business has never mixed and never will. And in case you havent noticed renee, a majority of growers are male, so of you dont like it, keep it to yourself and dont judge others for what they post. The girl
he described is your common bitch, freeloading and sucking cox, those type are never trustworthy, they're just there for the meantime until some "fresh puss" comes along. In my situation they were sisters.
Maryjane is the best and only female worth trusting in making you happy and she never talks back.

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1stimegrower said:

How is he a dick for making this post? It's a very interesting topic that a lot of guys have had to deal with and its good to warn and learn from other guys
mistakes. Women and business has never mixed and never will. And in case you havent noticed renee, a majority of growers are male, so of you dont like it, keep it to yourself and dont judge others for what they post. The girl
he described is your common bitch, freeloading and sucking cox, those type are never trustworthy, they're just there for the meantime until some "fresh puss" comes along. In my situation they were sisters.
Maryjane is the best and only female worth trusting in making you happy and she never talks back.

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First off he describes he as if he really cares for her then says that he is going to dump her because basically he is bored that not cool...I don't hop in bed with a new guy because the same dick gets boring that would make me a bitch right? hence dick but firsttime even agreed with my posts and advice on the topic..and well free country so I think ill continue to speak my mind has done me great so far and if you don't like well I really just don't give a fuck