It has little to nothing to do with tits honey, I earned these dots because I am real, I am kind, I have learned a lot in a short amount of time, and someone important on here has liked what I have to say.
And you can to.
Exactly. It was the same for me. I don't think anyone even knew I was female, til I began sharing a bit more about my personal life. (and I don't think they gave two shits, honestly) Maybe there's a different tone or nuance to my posts that seems more feminine, but I dunno. I don't mind about the titles, nor reputation, except that moving out of "stranger" category, gave me private message access, which is nice because I do like the privacy sometimes.
Male or female, I'd trust anything Gioua, Sunni, Granny Weed, and Caretaker Dad had to say. Uncle Baldrick makes me lol all the time. I love Uncle Buck's passion and bluntness.
And I would follow Minnesmoker into battle, or give him a kidney. Whatever he needed.
Manners, genuine knowledge, humor, kindness, common sense. These beat out tits and rep dots every time for me.