I guess this is a holiday to always remember. My brothers have ganged up on me and are forcing me to remove all my belongings from my mother's house. They know I am trying to find work to pay for storage but they are giving me a deadline and said that if my stuff isn't out by the 15th of January, they are giving it away and selling what they can so that they can use her attic to store their own stuff. I've been accused of taking from my mother when I'm the one that was there the whole time, NOT taking from her. My oldest brother already took over her car, her house, the one that's executor has control over all her money. I walked away from all of it, why? because I want to take from her?? omg..
I never asked her for a penny, never took one..I took care of her and her house, laughed with her, cried with her. I feel like my brother that I've took up for, stood up for no matter what..has turned on me over cold hard cash. I'm sick inside..I don't know wtf to do. I never thought my brothers could be capable of treating me this way. I never in a million years imagined my brothers would turn on me over money. Right here on the holidays too..I'm about to be moving out of state for a job so that I can pay my bills..but if I have to pay for a truck and storage, that move will be cancelled then I'll be fucked out of a good job with a place to live to boot. If it were just a bunch of junk, I wouldn't care, but I have several sentimental things, pictures, china my mother and aunt's gave me years ago and a dresser that my grandfather built with his own two hands.. I don't know what to do..any advice is welcome.
on a positive note...at least I'm with four of my grandchildren and my sons are coming to visit soon for the holiday. I'm thankful for that.