actually its probably a dog hair, seeing as how my girlfriends 4 dogs have free roam in the backyard including the area around the plant lol, im going to go ahead and re-plant tonight in the same medium i used to get it thus far, im crossing my fingers on a female, because other than that plant, i got one that has barely sprouted... and my girlfriend took the rest of the seeds and literally tossed them in a potting bed, expecting to get results, well there havent been any, so if this is a male im f'd and praying the sprout is female.. lol, thanks for all ur input too, ill be lowering the watering amounts to maybe once every 2-3 days?? I've been watering it a lot, daily at least, because its so hot out here, its still pushing 90-100f daily...