Cash the bank account out and hide any valueables from the wife before telling her
dude you gotta be kidding man 3 large to a priest?? no fucking way i call bullshit
Clayton your predicament is a very common one. I think we've all been in the "pay up or get kneecapped" snafu. My advice would be to take a home equity line of credit out on your home, probably up to 80% of your home's value is allowable, and put it all on the most sure bet there is. Easy money.
I say we knock off your bookie and rob him. This way nobody will know you didn't pay, plus you profit from robbing him. Then we find another bookie and bet it all on one game. You with me??
Fuck bro. You might have to hit a lick. I'm always down to ride.
first thing stop gambling!
second tell your partner the honest truth....she will not leave you and if she does than its never was meant to be, but if you dont tell her, she will feel like she is not part of your life, good with the bad my friend...just fucking tell her! nothing worse than keeping everything all bottled up ...she should appreciate you coming forward ...and just might be able to help... if you dont tell her you will loose her one way or another, if not now than what else will you keep from her...just saying!
peace and love
Lime
and did i say stop gambling! waste of your time when you could be doing more productive things...i know cuz ive been there!
Clayton... As someone who's had to slash their own debts a couple times, trust me.. Gamble away, just make sure you know where they're staying... I'll give ya' some tracked 100s, we can make "pity me payments" to them, and watch where the money goes -- from there, we'll clean 'em out, and clean up any messes.
A unified strike is the ONLY way to go! And, don't tell the Mrs. or you know old Willy's going to see the chopping block -- maybe for real this time.
I'm just trying to be a friend to ya'.
my advise is horrible? yah...as compared to what most have said? whateverThis is absolutley horrible advice on so many levels.
my advise is horrible? yah...as compared to what most have said? whatever
I agree stop gambling, I used to own a fairly successful computer sales business when I was in my early 20s and I lost it all and so much more to the casino, and u know how it happened? Always chasing my losses, it never ever works. Now I just go once a year for my birthday just to have some fun play a hundred bucks on roulette or black jack never more then that.
as for telling the truth and coming clean with ur wife, that's up to you. sometimes what they don't know don't hurt them but every situations different