rekindle your sex life think tank

Alrighty, im starting this thread because as of lately, my girl and I have been less intimate. I feel as though it has negatively affected our overall feelings for eachother. With that said, here is some background.

Been together 3 years and were both 21. We were getting it on almost every night for the first 2 years and it was great, spontaneous and adventurous, always lasted at least an hour (foreplay included). Now its more like a chore and im typically the one to initiate the act. She usually only wants to when drunk or smoked out.

If you have any suggestions that could 're-ignite the flame'. Or if youre experiencing a similar situation feel free to comment.

Peace,

Try some piercings, the ladies love them.

What you describe is just the way it goes ime. It starts off hot, and then you naturally get used to each other. It'll probably never be the way it was, if you really need that hot sexual spark, you'd need to keep rotating women every two years or so. At this point, bring her to events where you are a big deal, and other people admire you. That usually gets them very hot. Just don't get married! It'll make it 10x worse than it is now. Here's some truth for you -

Scientists have discovered a substance that, when consumed by women, decreases their sex drive by 90%. They call this substance Wedding Cake...

During the first year of marriage, a couple puts a pebble into a jar every time they have sex. After the first year, If they take a pebble out of that jar each time they have sex, they will never empty that jar ;(

Learn the Three Rings of Marriage - first comes the engagement ring, then comes the wedding ring, then comes the suffering

Keep her drunk.

kotaburnz said:

Alrighty, im starting this thread because as of lately, my girl and I have been less intimate. I feel as though it has negatively affected our overall feelings for eachother. With that said, here is some background.

Been together 3 years and were both 21. We were getting it on almost every night for the first 2 years and it was great, spontaneous and adventurous, always lasted at least an hour (foreplay included). Now its more like a chore and im typically the one to initiate the act. She usually only wants to when drunk or smoked out.

If you have any suggestions that could 're-ignite the flame'. Or if youre experiencing a similar situation feel free to comment.

Peace,

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ow shit man i thought your guys were like in your 40's or 50 gee man at that age sex no matter whats going on good or bad its was just like you sead everynight if it feels like a chore that like not good youth is the best..

love is alway the best thing for a couple but life stress shouldnt be getting you down and if it helps try not to fight thats always better even make up sex is great but man i usto date a chick thats all she lived for is to fight and then fuck but its not healthy.. good luck man hope it works out..

fight club-
interesting, especially the point about rotating every two hours. think I tried that once when I was 18, it required multiple showers, automobiles and alibis.

needless to say I've nvr been married and most likely will remain as such,,, I know that all marriages don't really end in suffering... I know some amazing couples! relationships, they must require some dirtywerrk tho. best of wishes!

abe supercro said:

fight club-
interesting, especially the point about rotating every two hours. think I tried that once when I was 18, it required multiple showers, automobiles and alibis.

needless to say I've nvr been married and most likely will remain as such,,, I know that all marriages don't really end in suffering... I know some amazing couples! relationships, they must require some dirtywerrk tho. best of wishes!

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LOL! Not every two hours, I said every two YEARS! That's hilarious. Here's an interesting TED Talk on this subject that hits on some helpful, scientific points -

tyler.durden said:

LOL! Not every two hours, I said every two YEARS! That's hilarious. Here's an interesting TED Talk on this subject that hits on some helpful, scientific points -

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Thanks man! Gotta love ted talks.

become 18 again. problem solved.

kotaburnz said:

Alrighty, im starting this thread because as of lately, my girl and I have been less intimate. I feel as though it has negatively affected our overall feelings for eachother. With that said, here is some background.

Been together 3 years and were both 21. We were getting it on almost every night for the first 2 years and it was great, spontaneous and adventurous, always lasted at least an hour (foreplay included). Now its more like a chore and im typically the one to initiate the act. She usually only wants to when drunk or smoked out.

If you have any suggestions that could 're-ignite the flame'. Or if youre experiencing a similar situation feel free to comment.

Peace,

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3 years at such a young age DUDE!!!! ...the average length of a human relationship/sex should be measured in months 6-9 months is ideal at 21, besides you are way too young for such an old nag, your ideal age group for your age is 17-20 yo, even for allowing for some crazy retarded nth american social groups / churches / etc

Its a credit that you made this thing swing for 2 years before she tired of you, but you gotta understand she kicks you, by doing this provoking you too nag and bitch, she looses interest, she walks out, happens all the time, only a jerk would try to prevent it, next time be ready with courage you can ditch her ...Yo!!

Just be lucky she ain't gonna come back with a maintenance program for your child, and restraining orders are too embarrassing at times wait ans see!

his and hers butt plugs? idk it might backfire...she might not want you at all then.

dannyboy602 said:

his and hers butt plugs? idk it might backfire...she might not want you at all then.

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Lmao. Ill admit I can enjoy a little prostate stimulation when im heavily intoxicated. As it were, she has no desire for anal penetration haha. I think she still wants me? She gets upset if I talk about moving back upstate. Idk man. I dont understand women. Not one bit. At least I still have my other ladies

vostok said:

3 years at such a young age DUDE!!!! ...the average length of a human relationship/sex should be measured in months 6-9 months is ideal at 21, besides you are way too young for such an old nag, your ideal age group for your age is 17-20 yo, even for allowing for some crazy retarded nth american social groups / churches / etc

Its a credit that you made this thing swing for 2 years before she tired of you, but you gotta understand she kicks you, by doing this provoking you too nag and bitch, she looses interest, she walks out, happens all the time, only a jerk would try to prevent it, next time be ready with courage you can ditch her ...Yo!!

Just be lucky she ain't gonna come back with a maintenance program for your child, and restraining orders are too embarrassing at times wait ans see!

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I get what you mean. My last relationship ended in a similar fashion. Starts great, slowly dwindles, gets emotionally distant and the tang train stops rollin. Maybe if this one ends I can move south. VA looks nice. Longer growing season

Threesomes.
mmf $ ffm

You're obviously pretty serious about her. What other,than time,has changed between the two of you? Have you asked her why she doesn't want to have sex more than you are? Could she be getting it somewhere else? Only drunk or stoned....hmmmmm.??

that could also be it i had a poker dealer i payed for her school and i work construction and was a way for long periods of time lil did i know she was fucking another dude the erg is great, man dont be fooled love can blind you i came home to an empty house so much for contracting years later she had a kid and she thinks i was the best person in her life, to late..... no way big dog you better find out quick that shit happends never thought it be me but for all i know i could have been kissing her after she gave him head real talk. something is wrong!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! big time ..................................................!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you better have a cold heart you gota be able to turn it off and walk away and get your game on work out be on your game dont let her have your fucken sqerm or beg for sex fuck that gee man up and toss it to the dogs.. be ready...

i think you guys should agree to invite [an(other) variable(s)] into the equation....if not seperate, then agree to only play around with others in the company of each other.

I don't think you should push sex; try having it only once a week instead of every night. When you do it with her try to make it special, like melting a candle on her breasts and adding some whipped cream, just try to make things more arousing. You could try something new you guys haven't done.

kotaburnz said:

Alrighty, im starting this thread because as of lately, my girl and I have been less intimate. I feel as though it has negatively affected our overall feelings for eachother. With that said, here is some background.

Been together 3 years and were both 21. We were getting it on almost every night for the first 2 years and it was great, spontaneous and adventurous, always lasted at least an hour (foreplay included). Now its more like a chore and im typically the one to initiate the act. She usually only wants to when drunk or smoked out.

If you have any suggestions that could 're-ignite the flame'. Or if youre experiencing a similar situation feel free to comment.

Peace,

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Been together for six years, we still fuck like rabbits.

Been married 9 years. We have sex 2-3 times a week. I give blowjobs all the time but he only goes down on me if I ask.

Maybe we should split up.