So not true. Different circumstances for different people. Some people (woman or men) are just straight out nuts and after the honeymoon effect wears off or after living with them a couple of years you find out who the "real" person is and sometimes it's a good thing to get the hell out!
Move on till you find one you truly connect with, sometimes that person is hard to find but sometimes being single is better than living in hell with the wrong person.
Amen to this. August 5th, 2012 got married. Well I should seen the red flags WAY before anything, but as a well brought up dude when it comes to relationships I carried on through the 6 years, despite different hints of her cheating and going off, well I was young and dumb for sure. Sept 10th rolls around and I get a charge from American Airlines to my bank account, $365 for a ticket to someplace in Kansas... okay... I live in cali.. well I had a hunch now, My ex roommate, ex good friend, and ex guuy I appointed for my wedding moved to San Antonio, Texas. Well she leaves after a big fight, she's lying through the entire thing "I'm going to kansas to help a friend start a business who moved there..." not buying it I open her laptop, and safemode in to look at her history. Sure enough.. ticket to San Antonio, Texas. Tried to work things out, became the biggest heartbreak of my life honestly. A month after marrying. Took me at leaste till January to really start looking forward. She switched over completely... Took her to Disneyland, Magic Mountain, Seaworld, hell we spent a long time in the dolphin exhibit. Talk about a rush of pure hatred.
Going back, after a realiziation I decided to do me, do what I wanted to, I apparently was a drunk then (I had only a few drinks a week) and I never smoked bud. Old roomies were lame, lost most my friend, but I gained the most precious thing anyone can gain, that is confidence and independence again. I'm now growing for the first time ever, smoking when i want as long as it doesn't interfere with a prospect of a better paying job (Mine isn't bad tho fyi), found a great girl, going on 6 months now, extremely happy with her, and even have a kid on the way. But nothing will get in the way of what I love, and I've even started another band since my last band's 2 year falldown hiatus. Playing guitar, a blessing to have a child on the way, great job, now I drink when I want to, I basically do what I want and maintain the healthy.
It's possible for anyone to have a great time with someone and make it last. I've been to hell and back and still bounced out and now am doing better than ever (in my opinion). But to each their own. I felt like high venting my 2 cents.