What do you consider desperate behavior in a female?

mysunnyboy

mysunnyboy

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just move on urca, seriously. idk you obviously but it seems you try too hard sometimes. be laid back, wait for them to come to you. if they WANT to then they will, no matter what they have to do. if they don't want to, you will make it worse by trying to figure out a way to see them, because in their eyes you aren't helping them but yourself because they don't want to see you to begin with. does that make sense?
i feel like you are trying to make a square peg fit a round hole (hehehe i said "hole"). you can't force love, affection, attention. if you do try, it turns into something negative, ie desperation, obsession.
just be cool kid and have patience. the right guy WILL come along and you WILL know him when he does. it's easy when it's the real thing :peace:
 
medicalmaryjane

medicalmaryjane

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i think it's desperate when a person doesn't respond and you keep trying to get in touch with them or whatever. i've done it but yeah, i was desperate. not desprate in general but desperate to get in touch which is essentially the same thing.

you have to find something mutual. like me and my bf, we want to be together all the time and always have. neither of us has ever had to be desperate.
 
medicalmaryjane

medicalmaryjane

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Urca said:
eh basically it was between two instances, one was the first night we hung out together, the first kiss etc... next day told me i was desperate. then a few months later (same guy ive been seeing since may) tells me that even though we havent seen each other in a long time he cant quite afford to come and see me. I had some extra cash on me at the time and I felt guilty about the expenses he always racked up coming to see me, so i offered to pay for his gas.
called me desperate again.
maybe I am
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i dont think you're desperate to offer. it's only desperate if you offer OVER and OVER and keep claling when he's clearly trying to get ome breathing room.
 
ClaytonBigsby

ClaytonBigsby

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Makes me think of The Offspring's "She's Got Issues".

Do your own thing, Mama. Offering to pay for his gas was a kind, considerate thought. If he thought that was desperation you need to re-evaluate your relationship with that assclown.

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W Dragon

W Dragon

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my vote would be to drop him love, it sounds like he's trying to take you for a ride so to speak. I don't know what happened the first time he said it but making a lovely gesture so that you can see each other is far from desperate. also you mentioned it had been a while since you last saw him so if he really liked you he would have been happy about the offer, i know if i really liked someone i would want to see them sooner rather than later! it's just my opinion but it sounds like the guy is either playing about or is just an arse that hasn't grown up yet and would rather be playing with his friends, in either case it sounds like you'd be better off without him dragging you down you need someone who will lift you up and be your best friend
 
PeyoteReligion

PeyoteReligion

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This last weekend I was hanging out with my friend and his girl friend. They had the bright idea of bringin over this one chick my buddies girl is friends with. so she comes over, kinda cute, so ok I'll give it a chance. Cute enough the booze could fix it. Then this chick opens her mouth. Can't stop talking about sex, says she thinks she's a nympho, fucks like three times a day. Fresh out of rehab (heroine wtf) and recently fucked some 32 year old guy, she's 23. Then she comes and sits on my lap trying to kiss on me. I'm just like "eewwww no!" but I was polite, didn't shove her off or anything. When Im not in her pants a few minutes later she like relax, "i have this guy I like"....then grabs my dick. I just kinda am like, uh no sorry lady. So she's like "what are you gay" I loped and said yeah sure. I dot know, i was really confused, like did she think his would turn me on? Is this how she normally gets laid? Like dudes here her and see how she acts and they STILL fuck her!?! Chick had serious issues and I didn't wanna crush her hopes. Damn I'm glad I didn't bone, my dick would've fallen off inside her!

Sorry peeps, funny ass story and I had to share. That Bitch was desperate Urca, you're just learning the game.
 
blazinkill504

blazinkill504

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PeyoteReligion said:
This last weekend I was hanging out with my friend and his girl friend. They had the bright idea of bringin over this one chick my buddies girl is friends with. so she comes over, kinda cute, so ok I'll give it a chance. Cute enough the booze could fix it. Then this chick opens her mouth. Can't stop talking about sex, says she thinks she's a nympho, fucks like three times a day. Fresh out of rehab (heroine wtf) and recently fucked some 32 year old guy, she's 23. Then she comes and sits on my lap trying to kiss on me. I'm just like "eewwww no!" but I was polite, didn't shove her off or anything. When Im not in her pants a few minutes later she like relax, "i have this guy I like"....then grabs my dick. I just kinda am like, uh no sorry lady. So she's like "what are you gay" I loped and said yeah sure. I dot know, i was really confused, like did she think his would turn me on? Is this how she normally gets laid? Like dudes here her and see how she acts and they STILL fuck her!?! Chick had serious issues and I didn't wanna crush her hopes. Damn I'm glad I didn't bone, my dick would've fallen off inside her!

Sorry peeps, funny ass story and I had to share. That Bitch was desperate Urca, you're just learning the game.
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she says all that shit then asks if you're gay when you dont wanna fuck? BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA typical dumb hoe thought
 
WeedKillsBrainCells

WeedKillsBrainCells

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girls in nightclubs that wear skirts that barely keep their derriere warm. not that im complaining but bit skanky. girls that are on you like flys on shit because you paid them attention, etc. But I guess thats the key to being cool and "not looking desperate", being emotionless and aloof, not many can pull it off as well as me.. joke
 
Samwell Seed Well

Samwell Seed Well

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dont put so much wieght to the negetive judgments of others

often, including myself, they are just trying to be hurtful becuase it is easier to hurt someone one with a vague insult then actually put thought into why we feel what we do

normally id would say somthing asshole ish or snarky but dont sweat it, if some dick calls you needy or desperate flick him in the forehead and say bye loser . . .
 
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Morgan Lynn

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Hmm, there are many different types of desperate women. First, you must identify which type of desperate you are trying to discuss. I'll name a few and give them my definitions.

1. The doesn't take No for an answer desperate: Will bug the shit out of a man until he gives in. Knows this prospect man doesn’t like her but tries anyway. Will not suck the cock.

2. The overly slutty need for self-validation desperate: Tries her hardest to look overly sexual. This attracts attention, either negative or positive, which is ok for her because she has a very brittle psyche which craves attention of all types. This is most commonly seen in strippers, porn stars, and college girls. Will take the cum anywhere but her in hair.

3. The need to surround themselves with men for validation desperate: Girls who have tons of male friends usually try their hardest to dangle the fruit before them. This does not count for all women with male friends. Engaging in flirty behavior with all male friends is considered desperate. Usually seen in addition to #2. Will swallow the cum.

4. The Sugar momma desperate: A woman who is willing to pay for a man to like her. He doesn’t respond to advances yet she still spends money on him. This sends out the notion that the woman is desperate for love, sex, or attention and will pay for it. Won’t swallow the cum.

5. The I can do everything men do desperate: Tries her hardest to share manly interests in order to gain acceptance in the male circle. This is generally seen with girls who pretend to like football and video games. You can easily spot one of these women at a super bowl party. She will be the one with pig tails, small team-oriented shirt accentuating her breasts, and only cheering when men cheer. The easiest way to spot these women, is to look for what’s in their hands. If it’s a beer, watch her face as she drinks, you can tell when a woman dislikes something’s taste. If she has a wine-cooler, she’s most definitely desperate. If she’s taking shots, you will get laid, keep close. Will swallow the cum.
 
PeyoteReligion

PeyoteReligion

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Morgan Lynn said:
Hmm, there are many different types of desperate women. First, you must identify which type of desperate you are trying to discuss. I'll name a few and give them my definitions.

1. The doesn't take No for an answer desperate: Will bug the shit out of a man until he gives in. Knows this prospect man doesn’t like her but tries anyway. Will not suck the cock.

2. The overly slutty need for self-validation desperate: Tries her hardest to look overly sexual. This attracts attention, either negative or positive, which is ok for her because she has a very brittle psyche which craves attention of all types. This is most commonly seen in strippers, porn stars, and college girls. Will take the cum anywhere but her in hair.

3. The need to surround themselves with men for validation desperate: Girls who have tons of male friends usually try their hardest to dangle the fruit before them. This does not count for all women with male friends. Engaging in flirty behavior with all male friends is considered desperate. Usually seen in addition to #2. Will swallow the cum.

4. The Sugar momma desperate: A woman who is willing to pay for a man to like her. He doesn’t respond to advances yet she still spends money on him. This sends out the notion that the woman is desperate for love, sex, or attention and will pay for it. Won’t swallow the cum.

5. The I can do everything men do desperate: Tries her hardest to share manly interests in order to gain acceptance in the male circle. This is generally seen with girls who pretend to like football and video games. You can easily spot one of these women at a super bowl party. She will be the one with pig tails, small team-oriented shirt accentuating her breasts, and only cheering when men cheer. The easiest way to spot these women, is to look for what’s in their hands. If it’s a beer, watch her face as she drinks, you can tell when a woman dislikes something’s taste. If she has a wine-cooler, she’s most definitely desperate. If she’s taking shots, you will get laid, keep close. Will swallow the cum.
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Damn I think I've met all of these chicks^
 
smokinmayne

smokinmayne

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i had a ex back in the day that when we did break up for some bs. my inbox on my phone would be empty, by the end of the day 50 fucking messages.

As time went by and we got older she ended up hanging out with all my old friends doing god knows what but would always call me late night for sex drunk out of her mind. needless to say this was a learning experience, but that bitch made me hate here like no other. she was the definition of desperate and i will forever never date anyone like her because a desperate psycho cunt, is one girl you distance yourself from till the end of time.
 
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Morgan Lynn

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PeyoteReligion said:
This last weekend I was hanging out with my friend and his girl friend. They had the bright idea of bringin over this one chick my buddies girl is friends with. so she comes over, kinda cute, so ok I'll give it a chance. Cute enough the booze could fix it. Then this chick opens her mouth. Can't stop talking about sex, says she thinks she's a nympho, fucks like three times a day. Fresh out of rehab (heroine wtf) and recently fucked some 32 year old guy, she's 23. Then she comes and sits on my lap trying to kiss on me. I'm just like "eewwww no!" but I was polite, didn't shove her off or anything. When Im not in her pants a few minutes later she like relax, "i have this guy I like"....then grabs my dick. I just kinda am like, uh no sorry lady. So she's like "what are you gay" I loped and said yeah sure. I dot know, i was really confused, like did she think his would turn me on? Is this how she normally gets laid? Like dudes here her and see how she acts and they STILL fuck her!?! Chick had serious issues and I didn't wanna crush her hopes. Damn I'm glad I didn't bone, my dick would've fallen off inside her!

Sorry peeps, funny ass story and I had to share. That Bitch was desperate Urca, you're just learning the game.
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Some men just want to get it in.

One day, when her friends are gone, and she is alone, she will realize what a royal fucking mess her life is. She won't have a partner, a house, or a life. She may even end up a mother to child who has no father. So, she will probably have to settle for a man she doesn't even like or love. It'll happen. I've seen it and I've warned people about it. Yet they still want to live like jack rabbits and be happy. Doesn't work that way...ever.
 
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