kinda funny, but my headshop, he doesnt care. hes been arrested for an illegal grow (i guess he somehow got acquitted) and still runs 2 different shops in my area. the first 2 times i went in asking non-descript questions, third time i went in i bought my light setup (200 bones). by my 4th visit, grabbing some nutes, he started dropping bombs on me. asking me things like 'what kind of strain you growing? how long are you vegging? are you planning on some sort of lst or topping method?". it actually made me kind of paranoid, but then he pulled out and proceeded to light a joint and tell me about how it was some of his freshly cured crop. i hit his joint smiling, and now when i go in i speak almost completely freely.
notice i say almost completely. i never mention to him where iam growing, the area i live in, i never show any pictures, or give any details that make me any less anonymous to him. iam actually quite comfortable with the arrangement we have going on, and hes a pretty vauluable source for advice, though not always 100% accurate.