I am enjoying this life just as much as you or anyone else is. I love God, I do not fear him. But I believe if it wasn't for me accepting him as my savior, I will not be accepted into His kingdom in the after life. That gives me ALOT to live for. I love my family the same as you love yours, and my friends and I have fun and do the same stupid things you do. Many people think us believers walk around on our knees all day, that is not the case, I run and gun and have fun just like all yall. I just think that for someone to believe that when you do die it's "lights out" is depressing because you only get a few years here and then it's a complete lack of existence for all eternity, and that is depressing.
I believe in God, you don't. Thats what I meant by "one of us is wrong." Live your life and enjoy it, because if there is an after life, like I said, you are fucked. You don't get to accept Him after you die when you see it and believe it, because you have to believe in Him in this life to be accepted into the next. Doing good deeds and being a good person does NOT get you into heaven, you have to accept Him as your savior and live for him, not yourself, doing good deeds just comes with walking his path, but again it's not a golden ticket into the afterlife.
Not bashing on your way, just stating what my way is. Besides, it's not my job to convince you or anyone else that rejects Him. As a Christian I will try one time as Christ did, after that you walk your own path.