Obama's pastor's words (notice the dual genitive, in essence removing responsibility from the first noun) were interpreted and juxtaposed intentionally for the reason of providing foundation for facetious claims. And besides, the pastor said, NOT Obama. When I was a kid, my parents raised us Catholic. I attended church with them. I was even a server and knew the priest. It was later found out that he was quite the child molester in his past. So do I support the molestation of children because of my weak and tenuous association with that priest? Ridiculous.
Michelle's statement seems to be WAY out of context (if she even said that). Show me where she made this claim.
And the fact that Obama doesn't wear a pin is meaningless. What the fuck purpose does the pin serve? That he supports the US? Over whom? Of course he supports the fuckin' US - he's the president! He doesn't need to blindly follow silly, meaningless traditions just because some obtuse fuck might become offended if he doesn't oblige. Do you realize how silly you sound?
And the hand over the heart? Who cares? Usually, smart people do this thing called free thinking. They think about dogma and tradition and engage in said dogma when it aligns with their reason and purpose and refuse to participate in dogma which serves NO purpose. Do you expect all presidents to follow every tradition set forth by previous presidents? He doesn't want to wear the fucking pin - it states the obvious and is therefore unnecessary. What's your rationale for the reason he MUST wear a fucking flag pin?