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would you ever stop smoking?

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lakersfan64133

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would you ever stop smoking for a mate? .. I respect RIU and the RIU community. I just wanna get your opinion and thought on this subject.

Reason I ask I just got out of a relationship with a woman who was a type one diabetic who enjoyed a drink from time to time. Yet she had a big problem with me smoking. I sent that hypocritical bitch packing. :finger:

But don't let my reason for asking influence your answer please tell me why you would or wouldn't quit for a mate?:bigjoint:
 
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spandy

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If my smoking effected my abilities to provide income or lend a helping hand around the house, then I could understand a significant other having issue with this, but otherwise I wouldn't stop because they would just be trying to change part of what makes me, me. I thought they wanted to be with me, not some other version of me after they get done checking and unchecking boxes, fuck that shit.
 
Popcorn900

Popcorn900

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I've gone years without smoking but it was my first drug and the one that I now truly love the most, You would have to pry the bong from my cold dead hands before I quit. Also I would not get into a relationship where the other was not a smoker.
 
captiankush

captiankush

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No. I for one will toke till I croak. Cannabis makes life better...oh, and just for the record, life is too short to smoke shitty herb.

CK
 
drolove

drolove

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something pretty drastic would have to happen to get me to stop smoking. few few things can influence that part of my life.
 
BygonEra

BygonEra

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For me, it completely depends on the reasoning behind it... if my SO offers a legitimate argument against it, I would absolutely consider quitting if I loved him. And by legitimate argument I mean if I've let my habit get out of control or negatively affect my life/his life somehow. If he wanted me to quit because smoking is "unattractive" and "bad for you" or "I act stupid when I'm high" then I wouldn't quit, I'd just smoke less around him lol.
 
Jimdamick

Jimdamick

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My wife would probably leave me if I stopped smoking, because then I would probably stop growing and she loves my herb. Sometimes I think my gardening skills is what she loves most about me.
 
Trousers

Trousers

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I'm just much nicer to be around, so I would never stop for some one besides me.
A friend of mine is diabetic and swears the more weed he smokes the less insulin he uses.
 
Pinworm

Pinworm

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lakersfan64133 said:
would you ever stop smoking for a mate?
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Probably not. I wouldn't be able to get through work without some seriously debilitating back, and neck pain. Drunk driver hit me 3 or so years ago. Broke my c4, and ruptured two discs (c5, c6). I'm no fun without a little tincture, and/or a dab every other few hours. It can get rough.
 
Balzac89

Balzac89

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Bitch should love you for who you are.

It's okay to change yourself, but don't ever let anyone force you into change.

It carries a certain level of (deep hostilities) but like discontent feelings towards them and the relationship.
 
AimAim

AimAim

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No.

And it's nothing to do with me wanting to smoke that bad, I went many years without MJ because my job required me to have a CDL (Commercial Drivers Lisc) and was subject to random testing. No problem with that, it was a great job and I signed on knowing the Federal rules on CDL's.

I'd never get into a relationship with anyone who had a problem with it though. I could care less if they wanted to partake or not. The issue is being judgemental and inherently critical of my lifestyle choices. I am who I am, take me or leave me, but at 56 yrs old I think I can make my own choices whether you with agree with them or not.
 
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minnesmoker

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My mate would leave ME if I stopped smoking.

I can't empathize. I can say that we talked about it and she knows I'd miss her if she gave me the choice, and I'd miss her if I quit.
 
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