yes, i paid a florist.
i paid the florist for a gift to make her happy as standard social conventions dictate.
i did not have to hand her a fist full of bills when it came time for her to polish my dome.
As I have told you, repeatedly, there are two forms of payment. Direct and indirect. Your example was of indirect payment, you purchased flowers for her, you paid a florist, what you gave her made her happy and she rewarded you. You paid.
Now if you had handed her a few bills too than that would have been double payment, both indirect and direct.
your money goes directly to a woman whose sole job it is to suck your dick and leave.
They do more than suck my dick but since that is what the thread is about I guess we can limited the services to that for the discussion. And you are right, I make a direct form of payment rather than am indirect form of payment, or in the case of most married guys MANY payments of various different types that are in an indirect form.
my money is spent making my wife happy, with a pleasant side effect of more sex when i keep her happy.
My money is spent on making me happy, which in an indirect way so is yours. You spend money for something that makes your wife happy. Then the pleasant side effect of more sex you mentioned occurs. Your indirect payment is what brought about that pleasant side effect you mentioned.
my wife would still fuck my brains out AND pay my rent if i had no money to hand her.
you, however, have to pay for the privilege directly.
When I have a rent-a-chick, yes, though I look at it more as I pay her to leave right after sex because I really don't care much for relationships anymore and I like my private time. But when I do find a woman I want to date, than it's just like you, indirect payments. Flowers, dinner, a movie, a bracelet or necklace or earrings etc.
and you are boastful of this, going so far as to spam your hooker service.
I am not boastful. I am honest and unashamed. I posted the picture of the blonde so people could see what my money buys me. She works out of Charlotte and the last time I was there I scheduled a meeting ahead of time. The word skank was used in relation to the women I will from time to time rent so I thought showing what my money gets me would show that while they are hookers they are table grades ones, they are not nasty skanky women. They are the young beautiful sexy anything goes types of women that married men fantasize about while they poke their wives. And while you call my posting the site I use to 'shop' spam, I did it for two reasons. One was there might be someone else here who will now benefit from knowing about the site. Second was that there was an attempt to make what I do sound lower and seedier and nastier than it is. Something like enjoy your craigslist skanks was mentioned. Well, the ones I pick are anything but craigslist skanks. These same women, if not professionals and instead someone's wife, would be true trophy wives. They are extremely beautiful, have great fun bubbly personalities, they work had to keep their bodies perfect. Heck, you could damn hear bounce a dime off their butt cheeks, that's how firm they are, and a tiny waist and flat stomach are standard equipment.
If looks and bodies were to be compared there are few wives that could win a Pepsi challenge with these girls. Sure a new young wife could compare now and then, but not after a few years of marriage and definitely not after after cranking out a few kids.
You see a value in what you have. I think that's great, congratulations, you're a lucky man. But the same sort of thing just doesn't fit me or my life so for me I find a value, that I am sure you will disagree with me on this, but is of equal or higher value than what you have.
I've had relationships, I spent roughly 13 or so years with one woman, I have lived the bitching, pissing and moaning that goes with relationships and more than once I have endured the heartaches that can go with them too. But when I retired I decided that my life would from then on be as stress free as I could make it. If I find a fun attractive woman I will date her, until it stops being fun or until I get 'the look' that tells me she's thinking beyond just fun or when she wants to start bringing clothes over to keep at my house. That's when I know it's time for me to move on.
You do what works best for you, and I not only am fine with that, I respect you for it. People need to do and be in life the things they need to do and be who they need to be. It would be nice if you could feel the same way about someone who needs to do and be something different than you and what works best for you, when someone else does what works best for them, like me for instance, rather than attempting to denigrate them because they are not just like you.
